TERF was coined by RadFems to distance themselves from RadFems who rejected trans people so that's not the whole story?
I do find it hard to separate all the strands of transphobic thinking but it feels like the TERFs are going from an anti-essentialist position, gender is a social construct, to an essentialist one, no one can be a woman unless they experience childbirth. Or have been brought up as a girl. Or whatever it is they're using to exclude people today.
The TERF position ignores a lot of science but those questions are not settled and we shouldn't need science to tell us to believe what a group of people say about how they feel. It was like this with the "gay gene" too.
Trans people are telling us the truth. They don't all agree with each other because trans is not one thing and trans people are people. There are difficult discussions around safeguarding, trust and understanding which need to be approached calmly and reasonably. That seems impossible when the antitrans position is so dominated by scoffing, disbelief, rudeness, ignorance and smearing by association.
I've got to be honest I find a lot of this post to be incomprehensible - eg what's that first line all about?
But I'd make the following comments;
1. It's not transphobic to question demands made by trans-rights activists. Many of those demands are pretty obviously homophobic and ridiculous (eg the demand that lesbians accept that TG men with penises can be lesbians)
2. You're right to say there are different strands in criticisms of TG activism. Radical feminism is just one of them. No radical feminist that I have seen has ever said no one can be a woman "unless they experience childbirth" - and it would make no sense in terms of anything else rad fems believe - so you are either extremely ignorant of radical feminism or you are lying. If it's the former, educate yourself, why not? If the latter, why bother? You'll get found out soon enough.
3. The stuff about science makes no sense; 'Radical Feminists ignore science, but science isn't important anyway'. Whatever.
4. You say 'trans people are telling us the truth' and then say 'trans is not one thing'. So whose truth are we to believe? Because some of those truths directly contradict each other. Which is why for example so many in the group who used to called 'transsexuals' are coming out
against self-id and are building bridges with radical feminists. Several transgender people (mtf) have spoken at Women's Place events, nd written publicly against self-id
Standing up for transsexual rights | Letters. The response to this from within the TG camp has been predictably angry but it's exposed a very clear rift. Many TRAs have routinely referred to the group that used to be called transsexuals as "truscum" or more politely "trans-medicalist". You have to acknowledge this split - it clearly exists. So whose truth are we to believe? It's clear that "truscum" (ie what most people take as "transgender") are massively out-numbered by the legions of fetishists and genderqueer poseurs so I'm betting that it's the latter group who will win here, but they are the ones are the problem, this is the group where the problems lie.