Sorry but this statement is still jarring me slightly, partly because you didnt answer my question in post #160.
Can we assume that if half the amount of Swedens cases, that have happened in Stockholm, amount to half of the deaths in Sweden? (I cant find the actual data).
If that's the case, then Stockholm being a city of roughly 1M pop has about 1250 Death/1M pop. That's off the scale!
It's more than New York City at 1.1K and NYC has a population density twice as high as Stockholm.
You seem a bit fixated on population density. One of the most densely populated megacities in the world, Seoul, managed to contain then quash an outbreak of covid19. It's far from the only consideration here.
Most Swedes - 85% - live in towns or cities, a very similar figure to the rest of Europe. As for Stockholm's deaths, I don't know - I only saw the figure for cases, which you can find if you track the links through Worldometer to get to Sweden's health service page. It was a little under half, something like 8,000 out of 19,000. A figure of around 1,000 deaths per million for a city that is an infection hotspot isn't off the scale, though. It's about the same as the whole of New York State currently. The figure for London hospitals at the moment is 5,000, add at least 1,000 to that with care homes included (which is included in Stockholm's figures), so not far off 1,000 per million. Go to NHS England website for those figures.
There are lots of issues with comparisons where you can end up not comparing like with like. Comparisons between cities in which the virus was allowed to spread uncontrolled for a significant period before any kind of countermeasures were taken, like London, NYC and Stockholm, are perhaps better than many other comparisons. And not so surprisingly, they turn up similar kinds of figures.
ETA: My point anyway was to do with the overall population density of any given country not being that relevant, in fact being something that can lead you down the wrong path if you're not careful with it.
EETA: Also, I'm not saying I think that makes things ok! That London, New York and Stockholm (along with a bunch of other cities) are likely to end this first wave with death rates of more than 1,000 per million is an indication of failure in each of those places.