littlebabyjesus
one of Maxwell's demons
I have pretty much zero contact with teens.It's really odd to me that people here still haven't heard of nagging. It's really common vocab amongst teens.
I am officially old, I think.
I have pretty much zero contact with teens.It's really odd to me that people here still haven't heard of nagging. It's really common vocab amongst teens.
Science stuff.
Well.. yes but, that's kind of the nub of it isn't it, it's so easy for us women we can just sit there on the barstool and wait for offers.*
*not entirely serious but mostly
Going out on a scary limb here but.. if the techniques taught by the PUAs did not work at all, ever, would they have such a big following and sell so many books & tickets to their lectures? It's just a question.
The 'negging' concept which first led me to this whole area for instance, it's psychologically insightful I reckon.
Can't quite bring myself to 'like' that but.. yes. To deny that this 'inequality of opportunity' exists is just kind of silly, isn't it? And it's surely a major factor in why people like Roosh exist at all.Don't even need to go to the bar - you can get offers of 'entertainment' from thirsty guys delivered to your phone 24/7 ...
Negging:
I've met plenty of women who find the idea of traditional gender roles and dominant men very attractive. Why wouldn't they? 10,000 years of conditioning isn't unravelled in a couple of generations...Going out on a scary limb here but.. if the techniques taught by the PUAs did not work at all, ever, would they have such a big following and sell so many books & tickets to their lectures? It's just a question.
The 'negging' concept which first led me to this whole area for instance, it's psychologically insightful I reckon.
exactly.I've met plenty of women who find the idea of traditional gender roles and dominant men very attractive. Why wouldn't they? 10,000 years of conditioning isn't unravelled in a couple of generations...
I've met plenty of women who find the idea of traditional gender roles and dominant men very attractive.
The thing about this negging bs, is that it most likely works on everyone to some degree. Doesn't mean the victims of it are mentally weak, twisted sluts. A study came out recently that both men and women are attracted to people who show signs of narcissism, psychopathy, and machavellianism. Psychology Uncovers Sex Appeal of Dark Personalities
As I was saying, it's not because we're weak and twisted, but because for whatever reason it's an ingrained response, and using it is a shallow and callous trick.
Roosh blames it on women, the fact that he couldn't get sex when he acted like himself, but that he could when he used this trick. Instead of looking around him at all the people who didn't / don't need to resort to psychological games to get attention, and comparing what they might be doing right instead of what wasn't working for him (most likely being his dull as dishwater, boring self)
I've met plenty of women who find the idea of traditional gender roles and dominant men very attractive. Why wouldn't they? 10,000 years of conditioning isn't unravelled in a couple of generations...
Sexually attractive, definitely.
Socially attractive, definitely not.
This paradox causes much confusion among the ignorant and insecure.
Well put. It's nuanced and often messy, ime. Many of us are conflicted and flatly contradictory about various aspects of sexual attraction (I admit that I am). I think that mess is what provides room for this stuff.I think it's a bit more nuanced than that. I think a good number of both sexes (heterosexual) are drawn to characteristics traditionally associated with masculinity or femininity. It's no doubt somewhat biological too. But there's a difference between liking a woman who gets her hair done and is soft-spoken to needing it to translate into her actually being submissive and needing to have her actions controlled by a man, or a woman liking a man who can chop firewood in a flannel shirt and wanting to have him dictate the details of her daily life.
Makes me want to move to Glasgow South. ((cold ravioli from a tin))Did that actually... did he really say that?
Gosh.
randian sorts of course. The one with long hair who looks like he belongs on the beast wing likes his 'Who is Jon Galt?' signs. Jon Galt is in fact a rapist from the rand book played as a hero. And so the circle squaresRecent rally in support of Roosh V.
Not sure what you mean by socially attractive. You mean like getting to be friendzoned ?
This has a lot of truth in it i think (not me personally or not me right now but yes)No. I meant that the men who women claim to find arrogant, obnoxious, over-assertive and socially objectionable in various ways are the very same men who they find sexually attractive.
Some men like Roosh find this contemptibly hypocritical.They neglect to consider that male sexuality is far worse in this regard, being based almost entirely on superficial physical characteristics rather than any kind of social or ethical merit.
This has a lot of truth in it i think (not me personally or not me right now but yes)
Not sure where hypocrisy comes into it.
And anybody who uses "male sexuality" or "female sexuality" in their analysis without explaining what they are talking about and why should probably.. have a rethink, and a tin of cold ravioli.
Your reputation precedes you on this website but..I fail to see the difficulty with these terms. What is it?
Your reputation precedes you on this website but.. !
You were doing so well dwyer
Not too sure frogwoman, but I think it's partly identity politics, a perceived victimhood (women wouldn't let me fuck them cos I'm a geek - GEEKS ARE OPRESSED! I'M OPRESSED), and also it allows bigotry to be dressed up as "science and rationalism for the win" (don't worry about the fact all of it is pretty much based on shitty science and huge fallacies), plus a dose of teenage favourite "cult of personality".
I read a really great (but long) article about why the most vocal rapey, anti-feminist, racist douchebags on line proudly wear the atheism badge:
New Atheism, Worse Than You Think
It's a good one.
The thing is, because they live their lives online, it's difficult to laugh at them. They hang around in gangs of trolls, following each other, moaning about getting blocked or banned (my free speech), flagging down videos and groups they don't like for no reason - MUH Men's rights movement Facebook group got taken down the other week after a mass flagging campaign (free speech yeah?). It's pretty impossible to take them on because:
1) people who think they are idiots have lives.
2) generally people can't be bothered with the abuse that is bound to follow.
He already did lend his support to gamergate.