Local MPs Liam Byrne and
Shabana Mahmood have been championing the views of the petitions’ supporters, demanding the right for parents to opt out their children. Their comments and the decision to stop the lessons have sparked fury on social media.
I found myself browsing the comments with trepidation. I grew up gay in a Muslim household. I was opted out of sex education at the same age as the children of Parkfield, and I could easily imagine myself as any one of them.
To be frank, for me, growing up gay and Muslim was bleak. I was raised to believe that my desires were unnatural. I was fed homophobic myths about HIV and “the gay lifestyle”. I was starved of gay role models or evidence that being gay could be anything but miserable.
It’s not a story unique to Muslim households. Nor is it one that is universal to all Muslims. I know LGBT Muslims warmly accepted by their families as well as people of no faith cast out by their parents. Those attempting to use this case as a weapon against Muslims are speaking out of ignorance. And, more importantly, they do nothing to help young people in households like mine.