belboid
Exasperated, not angry.
and if you’re mother calls, be sure to tell her…very often we regret the things we didnt do , more than we regret the things we did ....
and if you’re mother calls, be sure to tell her…very often we regret the things we didnt do , more than we regret the things we did ....
Thanks, I know I have the option to ignore those who persist in trying to goad me. I'll use it if I see fit, but not for nowThere is an ‘ignore poster’ button which is a useful friend. We all have at least one person on there.
It wouldn't be a bad thing if men could update it as well.No, hang about, this is a little unfair, surely. I’m just suggesting that it should be easier for women to warn other women about abusers in a fragmented and mobile society.
You could argue that any mitigation against VAWG could be used to blame women if it isn’t used, from calling the police to staying in a refuge.
No he didn't. Can you stop picking on any new posters please?Oh look yet another new member just pops up to attack marginalised women while white knighting ...
Wethers?!and if you’re mother calls, be sure to tell her…
Yes, it seems to be the logical answer.Until men put their house in order they're on curfew. We discussed this before on Curfew For Men
I'm in favour.
And that was from someone who joined a year ago who's now complaining about "new posters". Pots and kettles eh.Can you please stop having a go at people based on how long they’ve been on the boards, thanks.
Sadly, the biggest volume of the problem occurs at home in any caseUntil men put their house in order they're on curfew. We discussed this before on Curfew For Men
I'm in favour.
If girls and women were trained in extreme martial arts or boxing, believe me they would know how to fight back instinctively. Self defense classes don't go far enough.
As far attackers coming from behind, always be aware of your surroundings, especially at night.
Obviously it wouldn't be a good idea to punch a cop who approached us! But if they're not in a police car (he wasn't), nor in uniform (he wasn't), be very suspicious and look for a way to escape.
Size doesn't matter as much, if you have some kind of weapon to use against them.
Could a new thread be started asking men for their views on this? It'd be interesting to get their viewpoint.
So, you are jumping on the bandwagon of assuming I'm someone elseIs this tobyjug?
You have no idea who I am.It's got to be.
What about the men on here who don’t even bother reading threads like this.
They’re right here and presumably find these threads not worth bothering with. Are they part of the problem too? How do we draw them into the conversation?
As a starting point, I would point you to this, which is intended as something to think about if you have this kind of response.TBH I simply don't have any answers to this problem, I just can't get my head around some men are violent towards, it's totally alien to me.
That's dispiriting and sad to hear. I'm guessing this is a male dominated forum then?If you want men’s views you can literally look on any of the threads on here about women’s issues.
This one has gone slightly better than usual, with a few women sticking around for the discussion, but most of us can’t be arsed anymore.
Kudos to those still willing to.
And you're arrogant enough to lecture someone without knowing them.
Oh please, your sarcasm is so boring.First day on the internet huh?
As a starting point, I would point you to this, which is intended as something to think about if you have this kind of response.
Way to trash another thread! Totally unnecessary post and listing members is uncalled for. Go find some other thread to play in.Cheers, I get all that, but I haven't got the time or energy to read and properly engage with this thread, I unwatched it because of InArduisFouette taking it over, and now this newbie has turned-up to trash it more, I have no time for those posters.
My total respect to all those below in this list, but I am sorry, those two have wrecked the thread for me.
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You missed tobyjug by a mere 11 years, he's not come back while you've been hereIs this tobyjug?
You're a mite early in your urban career to be assuming the role of moderatorWay to trash another thread! Totally unnecessary post and listing members is uncalled for. Go find some other thread to play in.
Haha, so funny. If you want to have a go at someone, maybe choose the person who unnecessarily posted just now.You're a mite early in your urban career to be assuming the role of moderator
Wow, I hit a nerve when calling you arrogant! You use language as a passive aggressive technique, to belittle new members. Try using words that don;t come from your big book of psychoanalysis.Tardigrade, so far, strikes me as a classic internet narcissist, who wants to make a discussion about their personal circumstances and then act all hurt when people attempt to engage with the subject of their personal circumstances. Such types come and go — just ignore the acres of flounce and woe-is-me and concentrate on what’s left.
Wow, I hit a nerve when calling you arrogant! You use language as a passive aggressive technique, to belittle new members. Try using words that don;t come from your big book of psychoanalysis.
That'd be you then.Haha, so funny. If you want to have a go at someone, maybe choose the person who unnecessarily posted just now.
Try getting a dictionaryWow, I hit a nerve when calling you arrogant! You use language as a passive aggressive technique, to belittle new members. Try using words that don;t come from your big book of psychoanalysis.