As any of the (fairly large) number of U75ers who know me in IRL will all-too-willingly, all-too-happily testify, the
very last thing I am is a "looker"!
The key points are
a) that's part of the game, you can always say "get lost" if you belive a drink is that high a price for the company of an attractive member of the opposite sex for a drink - get real, in other words
and
b) this thread is fundamentally about the fact that a woman has the right to wear what she wants, do what she wants subject to the same Ts & Cs as everyone is, without it being seen as legitimisation of rape. Put in thread-context, such posts as yours misread the sitch rather badly, IME.