Many of the actions are contrary to the best interests of the 27 member states. They are in the best interests of the institutions of the EU, not the member states. It is not in the interests of the member states to leave citizens fucked on residency rights, nor is it in the interests of member states to end up with trade tariffs. The process has laid bare the problems with devolving your decision making to institutions whose interests are not necessarily aligned with yours.Because they're sticking up for the best interests of the 27 member states, none of which wanted the UK to leave, still less expelled us from the club? The cunts are the ones that brought this fiasco about and now seem hell bent on making it as painful as possible for all concerned.
In addition, the EU have really pushed ahead with further federalisation in the 18 months since the Brexit vote. Even if the vote had been to remain, their current direction of travel would have given me pause in and of itself.