If anybody wants an illustration of how toxic identity politics can be, here is an illustration of an exchange I just had in an intersectional Facebook page (incidentally I think intersectional theory has many valid incites into how discrimination and oppression works, but many of its supposed adhrents have a crude grasp on these).
So the OP (a white woman) posted up a discussion she had with an East European man in which he was defending some racially insensitive comments made by another person. He said that he didn’t think the comments were racist, merely poorly phrased. The OP said ‘as a white man you don’t get to say what is and isn’t racist’ and he replied ‘as an Eastern European man living in Germany, believe me I have experienced racism myself’. The OP then told him it he could never experience racism and blocked him.
In the subsequent discussion somebody said that while he thought the east-European was wrong to defend the racist comments, the OP was also wrong to reject the notion that east Europeans could experience racism and he posted up a bunch of links about the discrimination and violence many EEs experience in Western Europe. The OP and others respond that this is ‘xenophobia not racism’.
I then argue that the discrimiantion and prejudice that east Europeans experience cannot simply be described as xenophobia in all cases, I point to the history of anti-slavism in Europe and the ways in which Slavic people have been racialised and regarded as inferior, in much the way Irish people, Jews and the Roma have been. I posted a link to a short Wikipedia entry on the subject.
She responds instantly with *sigh*. When I pressed her to explain her response she said she didn’t need to read the link to know it is not racism, and said that she didn’t owe any ‘emotional labour’ to me as a white man. Others then jump in accusing me of derailing the conversation and decentering the racism black people experince. The OP says she ‘is so done with white people’.
And then it goes full circle. Another non-white poster has a go at the OP for calling out white people as if she is not white herself. He says she can’t do that because it de-centres her own whiteness and of course she starts apologising and what not.
I generally don’t bother engaging in this group but every few months I have a go and then remember why I don’t bother.