This goes to the heart of the current debate about Tatcher's legacy.
I'm getting really tired of hearing how horrible things were in the 70s and how Thatcher got us out of the mess, gave Britain a sense of pride and purpose etc. as if the only alternative to Thatcher and Thatcherism was to be stuck in that state.
No, of course I don't want to "go back": I want to know what it would have been like had we moved on into some alternative without her.
It's not a choice about either her or what there was before: it's about policies and politics and people.
It's not having to choose about paying an extra £11 for a "spare" bedrooms, or going back to work with a bad back: it's about policies, and people's lives.
Actually, more than anything, it seems to be about hate.
We were encouraged to hate miners, Argentinians, the unemployed, people who wouldn't get "on their bike", "the left", etc., etc. Not just a kind of patronising disregard, but honest-to-goodness down-to-earth hatred. They were Less Than Us. I am a little too young to remember much before Thatcher, but I do recall that it felt like a new thing - this sudden gloves-off legitimisation of the process of dehumanising and writing off whole swathes of the population because of what they are.
I grew up in that milieu, and it's only been gently over the last 10 years that I have realised how inured we all have become to the idea that we're somehow entitled to sit in moral judgement on those "beneath" us. Blair and New Labour carried it on, but at least had the decency to be vaguely ashamed of it, but the gloves really came off when the Coalition came to power. And now, with the death of Thatcher reawakening the vibe of that time, it all fits together - Cameron et al are simply proudly picking up Thatcher's baton. The way to deal with those we perceive as unworthy is to hate them, be they the sick, disabled, unemployed or just plain unlucky. If they vote the "wrong" way, they're not worthy of any respect; if they dare to disagree with you on anything, they're beneath contempt.
I remember Cameron spouting on, when he became leader of the Opposition, about how he wanted a new kind of politics - one where it wasn't all adversarial and combative, but about constructive engagement and consensus. Look at him now.