Mate. Step away. You’re embarrassing yourself.Yes seriously.
Just stick to your guns and don't engage, most people get bored if they are not responded to.This is how every thread about feminism ends, with a man kicking off because we're not talking about men with sufficient reverence.
This is how every thread about feminism ends, with a man kicking off because we're not talking about men with sufficient reverence.
no sense of humour... I'd be rich if I had a pound for everytime that was said about feminists.Surely all these het-up or po-faced fellas can tell all the beard/penis stuff is just harmless banter
I don't mind being called a cunt. I like cunts - cunts are lovely, warm, welcoming and creative. No insult taken.
I had no idea men on here were so delicate. I thought genitalia based insults /language have proved to the norm on all urban threads. If you're not called a cunt here at sometime, it is unusual.
no sense of humour... I'd be rich if I had a pound for everytime that was said about feminists.
Fuck yes! it was late I'd had a few drinks I was feeling in a whimsical mood, but eh fuck it I still think some of those beard fashions look very silly.I mean, like you say, this is urban, it's fucking weird not to swear here.
Fuck yes! it was late I'd had a few drinks I was feeling in a whimsical mood, but eh fuck it I still think some of those beard fashions look very silly.
I had no idea in expressing such a notion would be taken as dissing the whole male gender. Please remember that not all people with beards have penises.
Prick is a very mild insult imo. I say sod and bugger a lot and mean no insult to people with or without penises who like those sexual practices. I don't use cunt as an insult - because I love cunts. Of course it is the queer tradition to take insults and use them as a badge of honour. Queer, faggot, yes I am a fucking ugly old dyke! and proud of it. I've been a lesbian too long to worry about upseting cis het men - they have never worried about upsetting me. Do I want them Cis het men as my allies - (some of my best friends are, etc) but it depends on whether they whine all the time...
Is swearing a feminist issue? Making women responsible for taking care of everyone's feeling and emotional wellfare certainly is.
Fuck yes! it was late I'd had a few drinks I was feeling in a whimsical mood, but eh fuck it I still think some of those beard fashions look very silly.
It’s hard to tell where the edge of whimsy is with these threads. I ran with it, then second-guessed myself.
Where was the pic from, btw?
Which pic? The beards? I just googled for “goatee beard”.
Doing it again, I find that it comes from here.
6 Most Famous Goatee Styles and How to Achieve Them - Beardoholic
Actually looks like a pretty good guide for anyone wanting to grow a goatee.
My apols - I mixed up your initial pic with friendofdorothy ’s response.
“Rap Industry Standard” made me lol. If I went to barbers I’d be tempted to ask for one to see if they knew what the hell I was talking about.
I've banned him off this thread for a week.Mate. Step away. You’re embarrassing yourself.
Yes agree.Did you miss the bit about female posters being accused of misandry on a thread about feminism? Are we not supposed to react to that? To connect individual examples to the big picture?
I am sick and tired of the kind of "leave it, he's not worth it" advice which allows such nastiness to be normalised. This set of exchanges offers a good answer to the thread title; if/where they exist, the feminist discussions have been encouraged to fade away. I am not at all sorry to contribute to the discomfort by taking my turn at not letting things lie.
Don't forget 'talk over our heads like we're not even here'.In answer to your original question JudithB, this is why we don’t have threads on feminism. Because a lot of men on urban have so little respect for women that they tell us we’re doing it wrong, get angry and tell us to shut up.
I’d rather talk about feminism in places where men aren’t policing our speech tbh
Love from your friendly neighbourhood misandrist
And so it goes.
The discussion shut down, women drifting away, opting out because a man has thrown his woundedness into the mix.
Ffs.
...It's like...'I'm still reading...just you wait till my ban is up, I'll be back'
That’s the way the thread-ban works in the software. It just blocks posting.editor Lazy Llama is there a reason why posters banned from a thread can still read and 'contribute' by liking posts? Surely that in some way defeats the purpose of a thread ban?
So banning isn’t enough when somone says something you don’t agree with which no one else agreed with it either and thought it was silly?
That’s the way the thread-ban works in the software. It just blocks posting.
This is a public forum so they could read it without even being registered.