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Do you have a job which doesn't make you feel alienated and depressed?

I've been alienated and depressed to a greater or lesser extent pretty much all my life; work has usually exacerbated this... at the grand age of 45 I've come to a sort of understanding with life - I accept I'm going to have to work and earn money but I have found a way that doesn't kill my soul too much. I have two jobs because neither one is paid enough to fund my profligate lifestyle (three children who insist on being housed, clothed and fed) but I can do these jobs without feeling too much of a cunt at the end of the day; both jobs are for small charities actually helping people on a very basic day by day level - the street homeless and people who have just left psychiatric hospital. In both jobs there is a very minimal level of bull shit and the managers leave me to get on with it. I would like to be paid more though and work less hours.
 
People shouldn't be expected to take shit. People shouldn't be expected to work for low money. People shouldn't be expected to work so many hours they have no time for hobbies and family. People shouldn't be expected to do a job that emotionally drains them and be told "you're lucky to have a job"
 
People shouldn't be expected to take shit. People shouldn't be expected to work for low money. People shouldn't be expected to work so many hours they have no time for hobbies and family. People shouldn't be expected to do a job that emotionally drains them and be told "you're lucky to have a job"
100% this.
 
I love my job, I'm superb at it, there is always a bad side though, I scare my superiors because I know more than them, so I get penalized because of that, I have had a lot of empolyers but that does not phase me at all, I still enjoy my work.
 
Yes it's much better than my first full time job where I was an errands dogsbody. The perks are why I like my job of course. Free vending machines as well (but no booze lol).
 
Yes it's much better than my first full time job where I was an errands dogsbody. The perks are why I like my job of course. Free vending machines as well (but no booze lol).
What about the actual job itself? You can only bear it because of the perks? Have a nice sweet to bite on while we fuck you over
 
I don't feel alienated because there's actually a really good team dynamic/camaraderie atm, plus I (and everyone) really values the nature of the work. The reason for that camaraderie though is that we're being shafted by higher management, and in turn they are by the government, so the reasons for that are still pretty depressing. And we are all horribly overworked.
 
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Well some days aren't very good. Everyone has bad days but I it's nice not to have that feeling of dread on a Sunday. The most important thing for me is I don't have targets and pushy manager.

Still get an anxiety that this is going to end though. That they'll figure out I am not very good at my job and fire me. Or I'll let them down. Worry about it ending when it has only just begun.
 
No. No I don't.

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...most of my work these days is in child protection. It's really emotionally and psychologically gruelling. I have to work pretty hard at locking that stuff away mentally. There aren't enough victories for it to be rewarding, but every day without defeat is something.

in return my working day is mercifully short. I don't/won't/can't take work home with me. I have a decent level of autonomy over my work. I'm woefully underpaid. My working conditions though are pretty good.

Someone still profits from the surplus value of my labour of course, I'm not entirely sure who or how though.
 
Well some days aren't very good. Everyone has bad days but I it's nice not to have that feeling of dread on a Sunday. The most important thing for me is I don't have targets and pushy manager.

Still get an anxiety that this is going to end though. That they'll figure out I am not very good at my job and fire me. Or I'll let them down. Worry about it ending when it has only just begun.
That's alienation right there. And material perks contributing to false consciousness
 
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...most of my work these days is in child protection. It's really emotionally and psychologically gruelling. I have to work pretty hard at locking that stuff away mentally. There aren't enough victories for it to be rewarding, but every day without defeat is something.

in return my working day is mercifully short. I don't/won't/can't take work home with me. I have a decent level of autonomy over my work. I'm woefully underpaid. My working conditions though are pretty good.

Someone still profits from the surplus value of my labour of course, I'm not entirely sure who or how though.
When I worked in the not-quite-so-hardcore-but-vaguely-similar job of teaching art to very "at risk" teenagers, what I used to do was try ignore the daily grind of bad things and amplify the tiny victories. But you know about doing that, I'm sure.
 
Do you think HR attracts a certain personality type then?

quite possibly

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Ah everyone's being mean to Teenage Cthulhu. Come on, some of ye must know the feeling of thinking you're a fraud and about to be found out? I often feel like that when doing grown up things, even though I'm 35.
 
It's up to me to say if it is alienation. I don't feel it is. I used to get the same anxiety when I first met my partner.
I'd have to say I agree with this. I can't comment on the anxiety part. No experience there I'm afraid.

I get quite a few perks from my job and the likes of flexible working hours helps with childcare.
 
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