GarfieldLeChat
fucking awesome but wrong
what no one ever used the she started it/was asking for it/look what she made me do defence then... no? never? right...I would be really, really surprised if a standard defence in domestic abuse cases was "while I was doing my job she spat in my face and then attacked me in front of several witnesses".
There's a strong, easily made argument that this driver responded in a badly inappropriate way. I'm not 100% convinced myself, as I strongly believe that you shouldn't hit people without expecting them to hit you back, often harder. Each to their own, and we could have endless hours of fun bouncing it back and forth I'm sure.
But the idea that somehow anyone who defends the bus driver is a defender of domestic abuse...well that's just not true.
read around the subject a little...
that's the tenor of what's being said and those agreeing with the sentiment...
interesting too that you'd try and deflect the patently obvious reasoning behind the comment to mitigate that sentiment and justify the actions, in fact you're going out of you way to justify the actions of the driver.
If you don't think this is sexist ask yourself this if it had been a male having that argument with him would he have gotten out of his seat? would he have attack him? would he have thrown them of the bus... if you genuinely believe he would then carry on with your defence of his actions otherwise stop making excuses for the fucker and at the same time exposing yourself and your attitude...