S3E2 - Buffy's friends and mum are being seriously harsh. The girl had to stab the love of her life and send him to another dimension for all eternity! On top of that she was expelled from school, framed for murder and had her mother reject her!
I think that should permit someone a little wigging out and dealing time without getting "you abandoned us and we're upset about it" on her return.
But that's just me.
That episode is part of the reason I couldn't stand Xander the last time I watched some Buffy.
You can't blame her mum that much for being upset though
Someone asked about the order of the Buffy/Angel crossovers?
I used the first answer here once:
http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview/id/211562.html
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although I've been watching Angel recently and not caring at all about the crossovers.
I was so anal about it because Angel turning up in season 7 just seemed idiotic until you have some context, even then it's all a bit 'SMG isn't doing another series, let's wrap up the Angel situation now, wait what about Spike, er, let's just bottle it and not actually wrap anything up, yeah, that works for me!'