My local church costs nothing,I don't know which communal space you have in mind
Dunno what your local church is like, but my local church demands your soul as the entrance fee
Town centres - increasingly taken over by malls and out of town developments;
thoroughfares, increasingly given over to cars;
granny-huts, bandstands and other places to shelter from the rain - increasingly either demolished or turned into "alternative" coffee bars
common land - increasingly sold off to developers
, but the local park is still as free as it ever was, and has decent facilities.
Thats good - so no private companies trying to take over big chunks of it like the Go Ape development in Pollok or council trying to sell it to developers like in Bristol, or build a road through it as in Dalkeith, no plans for it to be turned into an amateur football field with licenced bar, like in Morden; no expensive coffee chain setting up shop there and taking up space with posh tables?
I have to say that with a local market selling cheap fruit and veg and a free local park you have it pretty cushty where you are.
Not really. The inside of her house could only be described as squalid (I shinned up a ladder to get in when she locked herself out), ditto the stream of petty crime, police searches, and assault claims. The eviction, which involved a bizarre bit of street theatre comprising bailiffs, the landlord's sons, the police, "the boyfriend", two minicabs, and a dozen bin-bags, was especially squalid. I don't use the word to feel superior: it was depressing to watch.
Mutual help cuts two ways.
Ah, see I do. I can see it as depressing and sad, but not squalid.
You're right mutual help does - and while I can see your generosity, did you ever ask her for help? For help that only goes one way quickly turns into charity, giving a nice warm fuzzy feeling to the giver and an increasing sense of powerlessness to the recipient.
This all comes down to where you believe the balance lies between personal responsibility and social responsibility.
Yup, I'd agree with that one, but being unable to cater for her own needs and being denies opportunities to contribute to the needs of others leaves her between a rock and a hard place.
The picture you paint is of a victim of circumstances. But many of the circumstances were of her own making.
Just because you made your own circumstances doesnt mean that you cant be a victim of them. You become a victim of circumstances when there is no way out of the situation that you are in.
Spending taxpayers' money on booze and fast food.
Which are both taxed - so actually giving away money in taxes needlessly.
However good "the system", it would have had a heck of a time helping her to sort out her life.
Absolutely - thats why the system needs smashed - and what better a place to start than a few windows...