LeytonCatLady
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Try and take some consolation in the fact he had a lovely life with you. It's obvious how much you love your cats.
Try and take some consolation in the fact he had a lovely life with you. It's obvious how much you love your cats.
Oh god I just realised they've stopped letting people into the consultation room again due to COVID, does this mean when I have to have him put down that I won't be able to be with him????
OK that is preying on my mind now, would it be too weird of me to phone them and ask? Given that he hates anything medical it might actually do me some serious mental harm if I just have to hand him over at the door and not stay with him. I can't contemplate that, I might have to take him somewhere else if I can't be with him at the end. They'd let me be with him, wouldn't they?
Oh god I just realised they've stopped letting people into the consultation room again due to COVID, does this mean when I have to have him put down that I won't be able to be with him????
OK that is preying on my mind now, would it be too weird of me to phone them and ask? Given that he hates anything medical it might actually do me some serious mental harm if I just have to hand him over at the door and not stay with him. I can't contemplate that, I might have to take him somewhere else if I can't be with him at the end. They'd let me be with him, wouldn't they?
Please phone them and ask, do it now.
I have to take our two in tomorrow morning and they’ve confirmed that one person from every household can accompany them (as long as masked, etc.). Of course they’re going to let you be with him.
Aye but I wasn't allowed in earlier when he had the appointment
If this vet surgery won't let me in then when the time comes I'll take him somewhere else if need be, I have to be with him, I can't just hand him over to strangers in a situation that he hates and fears.
Sonic is in acute renal failure and has days rather than weeks.
I am to take him to have him put down when he stops eating.
I feel like someone has emptied me out and binned my insides, like there's nothing inside me to feel anything right now.
Will probably collapse later when it sinks in.
seeformiles what are yours going in for tomorrow? I hope routine stuff, nothing serious?
In the last lock down two separate friends had to have pets put to sleep and in both cases the (different) vets let them go in for it. Hope that is the case for you,Oh god I just realised they've stopped letting people into the consultation room again due to COVID, does this mean when I have to have him put down that I won't be able to be with him????
OK that is preying on my mind now, would it be too weird of me to phone them and ask? Given that he hates anything medical it might actually do me some serious mental harm if I just have to hand him over at the door and not stay with him. I can't contemplate that, I might have to take him somewhere else if I can't be with him at the end. They'd let me be with him, wouldn't they?
It's part of being a parent, whether your children are human or feline, to make them sometimes do things they don't want to do but is for their own good. They'll soon forget and be back to their loving selves with you!Lil’ Bob was a model of stoicism at the vet but Vic was a noisy diva who howled and protested every inch of the way - probably because of how I stuffed him into the basket. Neither talking to me now but good to get their jabs up to date. I still feel like a right bastard.
It's part of being a parent, whether your children are human or feline, to make them sometimes do things they don't want to do but is for their own good. They'll soon forget and be back to their loving selves with you!
What a look! Great pic