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Transgender is it just me that is totally perplexed?

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Really! Why do we operate on kids who's genitals fall out of acceptable parameters?
This is a very good question. I think society is very fucked up over this stuff and there is a wholly unjustified imperative to make a biological judgement on babies in order to assign them a legal gender no matter what.

But I don't see anyone disagreeing.
 
It's possible to experience gender dysphoria as a teenager/young person and *not* ultimately identify as trans What’s Missing From the Conversation About Transgender Kids

And I don't think (or I hope) that no one thinks you're anything less than a really supportive parent going through a really difficult time with your beloved child Clair De Lune and trying to support him the best they can.

Natal women are not allowed to take HRT for more than five years because of an increased risk of strokes and heart disease. What's the impact on transwomen's health of taking it for years and years? What's the impact of puberty blockers? And if changing birth records means that the NHS is unable to tell who is trans and who is natal, how can they ensure they're picking up health risks that impact the trans community?

I've only had a brief scan through the studies linked in that article (it's a massive PITA on mobile and I'd have to go to the library for a computer) so correct me if I'm wrong, but they all seem to be about children with gender dysphoria. Desistance rates in any studies I've seen involving adolescents were all much lower (mobile bollocks, can try and dig links out over the weekend). Important distinction, since irreversible medical transition is only an option for adolescents.

Also, not all that relevant to the wider discussion but I'm not sure changing birth records affects the NHS's ability to see who's trans - you can certainly change the gender marker on your NHS records without a GRC (which is required for a new birth certificate to be issued). NHS policy is that you should be issued a new NHS number too.
 
I've only had a brief scan through the studies linked in that article (it's a massive PITA on mobile and I'd have to go to the library for a computer) so correct me if I'm wrong, but they all seem to be about children with gender dysphoria. Desistance rates in any studies I've seen involving adolescents were all much lower (mobile bollocks, can try and dig links out over the weekend). Important distinction, since irreversible medical transition is only an option for adolescents.
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The two recent studies she concentrates on both involve follow-up on case studies of children <12 years old, so yes, they basically both consider pre-pubescent gd and its desistance rates into adolescence/young adulthood.
 
Singal tackles this head-on. In fact she appears to reference this very article.

What is inadequate about this?



Serious q - I might have missed something - but she appears to be saying that they recognised the potential problem and went back to check.

The same charge, that many of the children were non-conforming rather than gender dysphoric, is made against the Amsterdam study and this is not addressed. The author of that study later did a follow up however and found that the degree of gender dysphoria is in indicator of whether the dysphoria persists into adulthood.

I'd question anything that came out of Zucker's clinic, it seems pretty clear he believe in reparative therapy and these concerns are not adequately explored in the link trashpony posted. The fact that 80 of the subjects were not actually followed up but just assumed to be 'cured' is also not really addressed,

An example of his work by the way

Zucker, who has worked with this population for close to 30 years, has a very specific method for treating these children. Whenever Zucker encounters a child younger than 10 with gender identity disorder, he tries to make the child comfortable with the sex he or she was born with.

So, to treat Bradley, Zucker explained to Carol that she and her husband would have to radically change their parenting. Bradley would no longer be allowed to spend time with girls. He would no longer be allowed to play with girlish toys or pretend that he was a female character. Zucker said that all of these activities were dangerous to a kid with gender identity disorder. He explained that unless Carol and her husband helped the child to change his behavior, as Bradley grew older, he likely would be rejected by both peer groups. Boys would find his feminine interests unappealing. Girls would want more boyish boys. Bradley would be an outcast
 
I've long thought that it is about time full access to all scientific papers was placed in the public domain. So I'm left unable to judge this paper without paying money. It's linked to in support of Brynn Tannehill's critique of the desistance studies, but I can't judge it all that well on its abstract.

A visible and growing cohort of transgender children in North America live according to their expressed gender rather than their natal sex, yet scientific research has largely ignored this population. In the current study, we adopted methodological advances from social-cognition research to investigate whether 5- to 12-year-old prepubescent transgender children (N = 32), who were presenting themselves according to their gender identity in everyday life, showed patterns of gender cognition more consistent with their expressed gender or their natal sex, or instead appeared to be confused about their gender identity. Using implicit and explicit measures, we found that transgender children showed a clear pattern: They viewed themselves in terms of their expressed gender and showed preferences for their expressed gender, with response patterns mirroring those of two cisgender (nontransgender) control groups. These results provide evidence that, early in development, transgender youth are statistically indistinguishable from cisgender children of the same gender identity.

This study doesn't seem from its abstract to support the case against desistance. Also, how many people who are transgender in later life presented socially as that gender as young children? How many were allowed to? It seems to me to be a self-selecting study, and while perhaps interesting, I'm not sure what it proves.
 
The same charge, that many of the children were non-conforming rather than gender dysphoric, is made against the Amsterdam study and this is not addressed. The author of that study later did a follow up however and found that the degree of gender dysphoria is in indicator of whether the dysphoria persists into adulthood.
yes, which isn't so surprising. I'd quite like to see some more detail on that - how much of an indicator?

Agree with you about Zucker btw. Reading more about him, he can fuck the fuck off.
 
Is this still 2017? I'm utterly confused why boys liking ballet is seen as 'gender non conforming' rather than just being that boys like ballet. Ballet isn't inherently girly, football isn't inherently boy like. I thought it was all about trying to break down these shitty stereotypes and the amount of reinforcing on this thread is a fucking joke.
 
To answer this, the law has only recently recognised gender at all (and just the two). I liked your post because although this is some kind of improvement gender is a very personal thing. Everyone has one of their very own, everyone different.

And of course there are male ballerinas and female squaddies. Children of either sex doing either activity is no cause for concern, which is why we should only talk about gender dysphoria in children, and not describe them as trans.

If you're willing to think of gender like this, I'm willing to bet that the squaddie gender type is considerably older, in terms of our evolution, than the dancer gender type.
 
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trans people are the experts on trans - no one else is

That's like saying people who've had a heart attack know more than cardiologists.

Sure, trans people know more about what it's like to be trans, of course. But that doesn't mean that the philosophical conclusions they draw from that experience (e.g. about the nature of gender) are necessarily correct, nor any clinical ones.

And, there's the issue that not all trans people think the same.

Also, TERFs could just as easily assert authority by saying that women are the experts on women. Or anyone could say that anyone with a gender is an expert on gender.

Plus, we're currently discussing people who aren't trans i.e. children who had some level of discomfort with their gender, but did not transition. A well respected poster gave their experience of exactly that. But you dismissed them as speaking out of their arse. You seem to reserve the 'experience = expert' thing for yourself (whilst calling others hypocrites).
 
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I'd just taken you off ignore.
What a big mistake.

No. I've discussed this with my intersex friend. He agreed that the gender identity struggles he's had are exactly the same as the ones I've had even though the reasons are different.

The gender identity that intersex people feel, that trans people feel, that cis people feel, is all the same.

Any way I had taken you off ignore because I thought I could possibly talk to you, but where the fuck did I accuse you off being a TERF?

Jeez.

Bye.

I don't need you fucking concern. Wind your neck in.
Stuff like this is why an awful lot of people have given up trying to have any kind of debate with you.
 
Is this still 2017? I'm utterly confused why boys liking ballet is seen as 'gender non conforming' rather than just being that boys like ballet. Ballet isn't inherently girly, football isn't inherently boy like. I thought it was all about trying to break down these shitty stereotypes and the amount of reinforcing on this thread is a fucking joke.

I guess there's two approaches to the constraints gender puts on everyone (but which some feel much more acutely than others): first, to reject gender altogether i.e. to say that playing with dolls isn't a female thing; or, secondly, to allow people to choose which aspects of that system of constraint apply to them i.e. to allow males who play with dolls to identify as girls.

On the face of it, the former looks preferable, particularly to those who argue that the latter reinforces the the system which underpins women's oppression. But, that places a big burden on trans people, asking them to suffer whilst the vast majority of cis people often do little to challange gender.

As a cis man, I think the best I can do to balance the long-term need to move beyond gender against the immediate goal of compassion for the suffering of trans people, is to respect trans people's gender identity, whilst trying to break down the idea of gender e.g. by setting an example for my kids that it's possible for people of either sex to behave how they want.

But, I disagree with some trans people that my respecting their gender identity requires me to accept uncritically all their ideas about gender, or how society should react to every trans issue. Indeed, in many instances, I think challenging those ideas is necessary as part of that second goal (and other concerns). But, given the shit they get, any such disagreement should be done sensitively and respectfully. And that, sometimes, it's more important not to take up every point of disagreement, because of the risk of undermining that general solidarity.
 
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Yeah, that's exactly what my mums's attitude was. And it was the prevailing concept in communist countries. Sex was a circumstance of your birth but didn't tell you anything about your personality or what you could achieve. Biological essentialism, so to speak, was out the window. And it was a cool attitude, and a rare one too! especially in Thatcherite UK where gender was being used to sell the same thing twice (long live capitalism, eh). Where my mum came from that just didn't exist. Stuff was stuff and stuff was in one colour for everyone.

As to the rest, I've tried to square that circle many times, and believe it or not have changed my position on this significantly in a relatively short space of time (compared to other political viewpoints). Personally, I don't believe that this is circle that can be squared - precisely because, as I mentioned earlier in the thread, they are rooted in polar opposite philosophical theories. (materialism vs idealism)

So the best that can be done is compromise, but compromising on such a fundamental question of how reality and consciousness is formed is going to be frought. And so it's no wonder stuff gets punchy.
Worth noting here that a materialist theory of consciousness doesn't have to be true, it only has to be useful.
 
And I didn't pick up on it earlier but I think it was trashpony that said something like even women have health issues on HRT. Obviously then I'm not a woman. Just been told there loud and clear!!

You're arguing against stuff people haven't even said. And, worse, accusing them of being transphobic on the basis of something they haven't said!

What trashpony pony actually said was:

Natal women are not allowed to take HRT for more than five years because of an increased risk of strokes and heart disease.

I worry about your health about being on long-term HRT even if you don't. But you're an adult and you made the choice in full knowledge of the risks. A child is unable to make those choices.
 
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AuntiStella, I'm not trying to get at you but I really think you're best off walking away from this thread (for a couple of days at least). It's obviously upsetting you and I'm sorry for that but from where I'm standing over the last few pages people have tried to be really respectful of your feelings. They disagree with what you've said but that doesn't mean they are gas lighting you, displaying fake concern or anything else.
 
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