Well, go on, I'll nibble if not exactly bite. I could probably come up with working definitions of exploitation, oppression, discrimination and a range of other things, right through to lack of respect etc. All different, many if not all change their meaning over time and in different contexts. Definitions are important, as is language - full stop. But this debate seems to have got to the point where definitions aren't helping and are only being used to firm up positions and take another spin round the maypole. Again, I'd rather start with this debate as the problem itself - something that from my, admittedly inadequate, understanding sees the victories played out as lines added to or taken out of legislations, speakers de-invited and more and more exaggerated claims made about the logic of each side's position.
Again, I'm just about wise to the possibility of mansplaining, but I'll plough on: if you take something as central as sexual violence - which affect women, trans people (and indeed men) - what does any of this do to address sexual violence?