He's defending a principle, he's right, we shouldn't be hung up about bodies, .
no offence, most of your post is commendable, but I fundamentally disagree with this . The vast majority of us arent hung up about bodies . We are perfectly comfortable with nudity in certain, and even many, situations . But there are situations were we arent comfortable with it and he is resolutely refusing to accept that . Hes not right, hes well wrong . As are you in this particular instance . His insistence that evryone should be totally comfortable with nudity at all times is simply his outlook, not how it is or even how it shoud be.
Ill give you just one example . The screws in the jails over here particularly dealing with the republican prisoners will put you on a charge if you get naked in front of them . They wont do full strip searches, they insist on you being partially clothed. Thats not them being cunts, although they are . Thats because after years and years of a very high suicide rate of screws manning the H Blocks the prison psychiatrists worked out that its not mentally healthy for a lot of people, particularly men, to be confronted continually with the sight of other naked men . Which was how the prisoners were on the blanket . It can really upset some people, they find it well unpleasant and its nothing to do with them being perverts or victorian . These days protesting prisoners actually use nudity as a psychological weapon against the screws as they know it fucks with their heads , and the screws know they know. And so they get punished for it . So its not all about silly hang ups, its about actually upsetting people .
Doesnt upset you , thats ok . Thats your business . But your business isnt everyone elses . And like I said if you think female work colleagues are simply being Victorian prudes if they got offended at you walking up to them naked at work, that they should have no right to complain or be offended....thats seriously individualistic and unrealistic .
Which is what this guys problem really is . I honestly dont want to see him come to harm and Im well aware how mentally destructive prison can be . I hope he gets the help he needs because plainly hes lost the plot at some stage . But at the same time if theres a precedent set with him then anyone could at any time appear naked in front of anyone they wanted and thats simply not on . The rest of us have rights and sensibilities that should be respected .