Do you drink milk or consume any milk products? If so, you are complicit in what you define as "murder" whether you eat veal or not.
I know, and I admitted as much here...
E2A... I love meat. I love a nice steak and I love bacon but I refuse to eat lamb or veal. This doesn't make me in any way better than someone who likes to eat babies but it makes me feel a little less guilty.
I'm not trying to gross you out, nor am I trying to put myself forward as being morally superior in any way. I'm simply saying that veal, in any form, isn't ethical.
I hold my hands up and admit that I eat murdered animals but I wouldn't try to convince myself that any form of murder can be in any way ethical.
I'm as complicit as anyone else but I'm not going to dress it up as something it isn't, and I stand by my original statement... There's nothing ethical about taking a baby from its mother at a few days of age, confining it in a tiny room and killing it a few months later, just because we think it tastes a bit better if it's (mis)treated that way.