MGTOW
Here's something I saw recently on an MGTOW forum. It's quite mild compared to the usual vile name-calling of women that I see on there.
"Watching women talk about work is like observing a square figure out why it's in a hole. Their instincts are a mismatch for the DIY ethic that is found in most workplaces. You DIY- you talk to people, you read documents, you piece things together, you accept some level of uncertainty, you spend a few hours after work when you first join, to just go through everything, create diagrams, dicitionaries -- and then you use this knowledge in first meetings, ask questions to fill out the picture. You buddy up with co-workers and pick their brain over lunch. In other words, it is UNSTRUCTURED. That's life in the workforce today; your job is so dis-aggregated, there is no one person to train you.
Overhearing two female "professionals", she was talking about switching jobs but claimed there would be no point if they didn't formally train her because otherwise she would start at ground 0. A Sr. Buyer could shift to Sr. Merchandising, and after hard do-it-yourself course of learning the domain specific concepts, could apply his overall expertise at a senior level in no time. WITHOUT training. That's what men do. Initiative. We go OUT there, figure out what needs to be learned, have no fear, get the information you need, even if it's spread across 30 pdfs, 2 books, and 14 websites. And build a mental model from it. And fast.
Men can do this, women can't. So women are now trying to mandate company alter their policies to accomdoate the fact that they are naturally too lazy to have the courage and drive to learn on their own. Spoonfeeding alone will work for them. Everything else in UNFAIR.
Female shortcomings paired with demeands for equality have wreaked havoc because those programs have not been realistic about what the same task for men would mean for women. It would ask of them physical abilities they can't deal with, ask them to operate in a busines environemnt that requires self-starter behavior to learn rapidly without someone spoonfeeding them everything like they did in college. Same when they lower standards in the military so women can qualify. Long story short, these pushes for equal outcomes, creates a unstable, chaotic environment that unbalances a sytem that worked perfectly fine and refuses to push the burden back on women ; such as "You will get training - but YOU have to develop the plan, YOU find out who knows what you need to know, develop relationships with them, and YOU create the training plan - each person you deal with is YOUR mentor - so learn from them".
But snowflake's not having it. "Uh, in the past, they always spoonfed me everything that i later applied verbatim in school" Why can't I force IBM to create formal txtbook for training for the one position I'll be joining?
When orgs capitulate to this feminist spurred agenda, they will also be eviscerating any action being taken to convince women that THEY need to develop new skills to collect information in an unstructured environment. It will legitimize their shortcomings and discourage them from making meaninfull progress in those areas; the same areas that will be critical for their business success in areas far outside the initial training.
When women DEMAND training from their employer. The employer should be clear. Training means YOU connect with co-workers and understand the operation. You do the reading and put the pieces together. Your disinclination of do-it-yourself education is not reason for us to break a system that has worked well for so long. Whatever self-starting, enterpreneurial behavior, and big picture thinking, as well as ability to syncretize disaparate sources of information to grok how the whole system works, will prove invaluable THROUGHOUT your career. Giving you a CD that spoonfeeds you won't give you half the detail, much outddated, and worse, reinforce the idea that the core skills and responsibilities outlined can be avoided.
Men say: "This is new. Cool, I"ll figure it out. Where are the wiki docs on this project. OK, now who are the owners. Set up lunch with both owners tomorrow and pick their brain. Align with goals, question them; vet the methodology and then dive into the working sessions."
Women say: "OMG, so complicated, so many moving parts. Can't someone (a man) spend 3 days walking me through each step of the process?"
Given women's refusal to DIY, a woman with equivalent education is no where nearly as productive as a man."
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