In that case it's possible that your grandfather and mine met, as my paternal grandgather was also a wireless operator and was based in the Med, mainly at Alexandria, between 1939 and 1942. He kept a diary (the first volume of which, for 1939, is in a German steamship company's corporate diary, which he'd snaffled from a ship they'd arrested), which my uncle refuses to put into a proper archive but did lend to me to take copies a few years ago. I did look into publishing them since they shed a very interesting light on a very much overlooked part of the war, but the market's saturated with such things and I couldn't interest a publisher. Granddad makes pretty clear in the diaries that he didn't enjoy the war, hated the Navy and was forever getting into trouble for one thing or another. By my count he ended up on punishment for insubordination three times in two years. As he says repeatedly, he just wanted to be back in London with his wife, especially when the news came through that one of his brothers had been killed in the
Bank tube station bomb. Sadly I never met him, as he died suddenly a year before I was born. I also don't know much about his later war service because he stopped keeping his diary when he was recalled to Britain in 1942, but I believe he was on the Murmansk convoys. A braver man than he considered himself to be, I think.
I never met my maternal grandfather either, since he abandoned his wife and daughters in the 50s and lived for the rest of his life in New Zealand. Illustrating the class divide in my family, whereas my paternal grandfather was a railway porter who joined the RNVR for unknown reasons (I suspect he just thought that if war was likely - which by the time he joined up it was - the Navy was a more attractive place to serve than the army), he was a career naval officer who ended the war commanding a frigate. I have his ceremonial sword, complete with his inititals engraved in the scabbard. One of his middle names was Arbuthnot, which refers to a very distant family connection with a much more famous officer who has been described as '
in a colloquial if not a clinical sense insane.'