If only the issue were as black and white as you make it
kebabking. Yes, I know that sounds like the beginning of a "When I were a lad we used to dream of living in middle of motorway" reply but forgive me, for when it comes to bottom of the socio-economic pile, working in mental health in a PRU, I think I might have something to say.
Our kids have been kicked out of education, often unfairly, have nothing so grand as a 'diet', spend their lives upstairs on playstations to avoid abuse, appear on every register you can think of, live in abject poverty and with no parenting whatsoever. A hell of a lot have suffered sexual abuse or other physical abuse, many are heroin babies or the sons and daughters of drug dealers. They wear the same clothes EVERY day and love coming to our school - having been thrown out of mainstream - because it's somewhere they meet wellbeing and safeguarding for the first time in their lives.
I would love to go 'back to normal' with them. But it's simply not sensible to right now.
In the meantime...hot meals you say? Yep, none of them get hot meals at home. And you know what? None of them get hot meals in school either. We have no proper kitchen, no kitchen staff, and absolutely no provision for hot meals. Once a week the wellbeing officer takes it on himself to cook for them. It's not practical to do it once a week, let alone five days a week, but he tries.
The school is a condemned primary school 100 years old. With asbestos. We were meant to be there 2 years, its now been 3. This is typical of how Local Authorities think about the bottom of the socio-economic pile.
The first bit doesn't concern me at all if we are talking about kids at the bottom of the socio-economic pile. Because that is normal. Yes it is. In my school anyway, which is where the "dream of living in middle of motorway" relevance kicks in. If we really are talking the bottom of the pile, like I've described my kids, then of course, it would be lovely to think they could do some work (and some of my kids have been doing work, just very few of them, via the school website where dedicated teachers have uploaded modules for parents to download). But tbh, the main concern is their wellbeing and safeguarding, where the emboldened bit comes in. And frankly I'm shocked that you say neither the school nor specialist support services have had contact with the kids. Perhaps, in mainstream, it isn't the duty of the school to stay in contact, though frankly I'd argue people like your wife have a moral obligation to try. But no contact from specialist support services? No social workers? I find that hard to believe. Regardless, in our school, though there is no statutory obligation on our behalf, our 'schoolpod' (computer system) is chocka full with details of contacts between staff and vulnerable pupils every day. Because it's all we can do right now. So we make sure we bloody well do. Every member of staff has 2-4 pupils for which they are keyworkers. We make sure we contact these kids 2/3/4 times a week and record what is happening.
It may seem a poor substitute but it's a lot more than you describe is happening, and while we can't, and shouldn't go back to work risking vulnerable staff's lives, it's what we will continuie to do. Many of us are in touch with key outside agencies and support services as well as our kids. We are not sitting at home 'swanning around' however I might have made light of this in other threads. Nobody feels like they're on holiday.
I'd suggest, bearing in mind what I've written, there are bigger issues need addressing in provision for those at the bottom of the pile and that these issues were there before Covid and will be there after Covid. Proper funding for PRUs, SEN kids and kids with severe emotional problems and needs from 'the bottom of the pile'. Simply going back to school is not therefore going to solve these problems. And not going back to school, to go back to where this started with the
Edie post, is not a disproportionate response to the virus. It's there to save lives of vulnerable staff members who work their hearts out with the most vulnerable of children - and are still doing so, unseen to many, all, of you lot.