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Add to the three members of my family who are already sick Mrs Frank, who has developed a sudden fever and who I am powerless to help from here as we've got stuck in separate cities.

I've been fighting off the worst of the darkness so far but this is possibly more than I can deal with.
 
Add to the three members of my family who are already sick Mrs Frank, who has developed a sudden fever and who I am powerless to help from here as we've got stuck in separate cities.

I've been fighting off the worst of the darkness so far but this is possibly more than I can deal with.

Aw mate, sorry she’s unwell and you can’t be there. Properly feeling for you and hoping with every fibre that she recovers quickly.
 
I have no reason to think she won't be fine and she's not worried at all. I just wish I could provide her with soup. I make really good soup.

I always associate good things with a bowl being filled with cherries, hope her bowl can be filled with soup soon.
Are you not allowed to visit, with her being in need? Or is that a bad thing now?
 
Add to the three members of my family who are already sick Mrs Frank, who has developed a sudden fever and who I am powerless to help from here as we've got stuck in separate cities.

I've been fighting off the worst of the darkness so far but this is possibly more than I can deal with.
all the best btw, hope you find the strength you need!
 
Never spent this much in a grocery delivery ever. Should have enough for 3 or 4 weeks with it though, especially if I can top up with a fresh veg order every couple weeks.

Add to the three members of my family who are already sick Mrs Frank, who has developed a sudden fever and who I am powerless to help from here as we've got stuck in separate cities.

I've been fighting off the worst of the darkness so far but this is possibly more than I can deal with.

Shit I'm so sorry
 
Starting to feel shit about things. Spent my week having a long period of exercise cycling...now it's been clarified at an hour I'm gonna go mad if I'm in the house all the time.

Currently living with my ex and my son and his girlfriend are here as they're both at different universities and thought it better to be together somewhere. She's a nice kid but been feeling poorly all week, not virus related she just has stomach problems after she eats so she's been on porridge, white rice and potatoes. Feels like he's doing a lot of caring for her and not got time for anything else. We've not even watched a film together all week. I feel like saying something but would probably cause shit so I'm staying in my room and avoiding contact.

Should be starting a new job tomorrow but looks like it'll be a week on Monday and even then WFH. Fuck knows how that's gonna work, I'm anxious about how I'm gonna be able to pick things up or learn stuff without someone to ask and I'm really not good with the phone, fuck all chance of me using those video chat things.

Got Occupational health ringing me in the morning at least so maybe there'll be some support put in place.
 
Starting to feel shit about things. Spent my week having a long period of exercise cycling...now it's been clarified at an hour I'm gonna go mad if I'm in the house all the time.

Currently living with my ex and my son and his girlfriend are here as they're both at different universities and thought it better to be together somewhere. She's a nice kid but been feeling poorly all week, not virus related she just has stomach problems after she eats so she's been on porridge, white rice and potatoes. Feels like he's doing a lot of caring for her and not got time for anything else. We've not even watched a film together all week. I feel like saying something but would probably cause shit so I'm staying in my room and avoiding contact.

Should be starting a new job tomorrow but looks like it'll be a week on Monday and even then WFH. Fuck knows how that's gonna work, I'm anxious about how I'm gonna be able to pick things up or learn stuff without someone to ask and I'm really not good with the phone, fuck all chance of me using those video chat things.

Got Occupational health ringing me in the morning at least so maybe there'll be some support put in place.

Christ, good luck with all that.
 
Starting to feel shit about things. Spent my week having a long period of exercise cycling...now it's been clarified at an hour I'm gonna go mad if I'm in the house all the time.

Currently living with my ex and my son and his girlfriend are here as they're both at different universities and thought it better to be together somewhere. She's a nice kid but been feeling poorly all week, not virus related she just has stomach problems after she eats so she's been on porridge, white rice and potatoes. Feels like he's doing a lot of caring for her and not got time for anything else. We've not even watched a film together all week. I feel like saying something but would probably cause shit so I'm staying in my room and avoiding contact.

Should be starting a new job tomorrow but looks like it'll be a week on Monday and even then WFH. Fuck knows how that's gonna work, I'm anxious about how I'm gonna be able to pick things up or learn stuff without someone to ask and I'm really not good with the phone, fuck all chance of me using those video chat things.

Got Occupational health ringing me in the morning at least so maybe there'll be some support put in place.

I don't like phone either and video would also be right out (I just tell them it doesn't work on Linux). I like e-mails. It's written down, much less chance of misunderstandings, read them at leisure and keep referring to them as you need to. Also much faster to get information from.
 
Eta: all my work comes in by e-mail with attached documents, I do it and send it back by e-mail. Love it. Occasionally the bloke I work for does interviews with people that he tapes and send it to me. I type them out and edit as required. Love that too. No stress. :)
 
Took my kid out earlier, only onto the street for a quick blast on her scooter, out for fifteen minutes, couple of vans came down road but didn't see another soul out on the street, noticed a few curtains twitching though.

First time she had left house in days, probably a week, we've spent loads of time in garden so we're not depriving her of vitamin d but she was still like terry waite emerging from the front door. She behaved like she wasn't allowed. Down the road is a little girl she loves called naz, her best mate. My daughter got upset we couldn't knock on, so I phoned my other half to text the mum and then the little girl come to window and waved. It was a weird experience, broke my heart a little bit cos this is weird for all of us but how fucked up must it be for young kids, learning that people and the outside world are to be avoided.
 
Having to watch morning TV is doing my nut in. :facepalm:

Just watched Piers Morgan and that Lorraine woman interview the oldest man in the world who had a birthday yesterday (112). In the space of a few minutes they managed to be patronising, vacuous, condescending, twee, and cringeworthy. All the fascinating things they could have asked that old boy but Lorraine just cooed at him like he was a puppy and Morgan came out with shit like "do you eat meat?", "do you drink alcohol?" and "what advice would you give young people?"

Fortunately the old fella was far brighter than those two twats which kept me watching.
 
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I think that is the plan. Best to wade in on all fronts and have options. The UC claim will not be assessed till April 22nd :hmm: so there is at least a month of rattling around.
Update on this....

They called today (early) saying that they want to process all claims asap.
Pretty much only confirmed my personal and bank details and said the claim is approved and told me to apply for an advance online if needed.
 
Update on this....

They called today (early) saying that they want to process all claims asap.
Pretty much only confirmed my personal and bank details and said the claim is approved and told me to apply for an advance online if needed.

Have been trying to phone all day to book my first appointment. Either engaged, or rings and let's me through first couple of press button options then engaged, doing my fucking head in. I don't mind holding, it's the constantly having to hang up and call back that's annoying
 
Fuck, they can do it when they want to then, particularly with the huge volume of claims they've got at the moment. The normally clearly have an in tray marked "punishment box: delay for several weeks"
She pretty much told me that all claims were being paid regardless. Also said they do not have the staff numbers to review anything at this time and that she was (understandably) unhappy about having to be in an office to process this :(

Basic Income across the board would be so much better #fuckthetories
 
Have been trying to phone all day to book my first appointment. Either engaged, or rings and let's me through first couple of press button options then engaged, doing my fucking head in. I don't mind holding, it's the constantly having to hang up and call back that's annoying
They told me not to book an appointment.
Keep everything online and they would call me.

:hmm:
 
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