For me this is not just a cliché, but a stereotypical and frankly misogynist one at that.
In a fair few if not most supernatural horror films involving a couple moving into a haunted house, it’s so often the woman who alone notices the supernatural phenomena. And almost always, instead of being supported by her husband, she’s doubted and before long branded as imagining everything. Due of course to postnatal depression, or grief following a miscarriage or the death of a child. Quite often ends up locked up in an institution as well. I’m surprised they refrain themselves from using the word hysterical.
There are plenty of such films in which everyone notices the spooky stuff of course, but funny how few when it’s just one person and it’s the man instead of the woman. I can think of some myself, but I reckon it tallies up to 80-20%.
The "hysterical woman" is a trope in horror films and thrillers (far from restricted to films about hauntings) but it isn't the films which are misogynist, it's the male characters who don't believe them and they usually live (or die) to regret it.
Specifically when it comes to haunted house films, off the top of my head I can think of lots of famous ones where it's a man or boy who notices or falls under the spell of the supernatural. The Shining, The Amityville Horror, Stir of Echos, The Sixth Sense, Sinister, The Changeling, The Devil's Backbone, His House, The Woman in Black, A Christmas Carol, 1409 and Burnt Offerings.
Most of the "hysterical" women in haunted house narratives are single, starting with Henry James' The Turn of the Screw and Shirley Jackson's The Haunting of Hill House (and their many adaptations) which are as much about their female protagonist's mental state as they are about ghosts.
The most famous haunted house film where a wife discovers the haunting is Poltergeist and her husband immediately believes her, because she produces proof.
A horror classic which fits your claim would be Rosemary's Baby (though not about ghosts) and in that her husband doesn't believe her, because he's the main villain who plots against her.