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Modesty Bag
Most of the grimmest I've seen already mentioned - Come And See, Lilya 4-Ever, Funny Games - but would also add
Pixote (Brazil 1980) - just relentlessly grimy and sad, and its real life aftermath only punches that home (a superb film though)
Fateless (Hungary 20025) - Holocaust and its aftermath, where things don't improve that much...
I haven't seen it myself but the Russian film Cargo 200 from 2005 is supposed to be enough to traumatise anyone
Pixote (Brazil 1980) - just relentlessly grimy and sad, and its real life aftermath only punches that home (a superb film though)
Fateless (Hungary 20025) - Holocaust and its aftermath, where things don't improve that much...
I haven't seen it myself but the Russian film Cargo 200 from 2005 is supposed to be enough to traumatise anyone