In other words, you've internalised the narratives that have been constantly spouted by the Labour right, the Tories and their allies in media and have accepted defeat as inevitable. That's the same defeatism I've seen from Labour for the last 35 years. "If we don't do what the papers say, we'll be out of power for generations" is their mantra, but it's predicated on falsehoods. You and those who adopt this line are actively colluding in your own oppression to the extent that you actually welcome 20 years of Tory rule because it vindicates your mistaken beliefs.