It’s an interesting thought, given the much higher levels of assault by men, what’s your opinion?But wouldn’t it be dangerous to pay men to stay at home with their children if they are not genetically predisposed to be caring or nurturing.
It’s an interesting thought, given the much higher levels of assault by men, what’s your opinion?But wouldn’t it be dangerous to pay men to stay at home with their children if they are not genetically predisposed to be caring or nurturing.
The idea that animal behaviour is influenced by gamete size is not preposterous, it’s pretty well established in evolutionary biology. The extent it influences complex human social behaviour is absolutely debatable though. I’m thinking about your interesting other post and will reply.1) Steal underpants
2) ???
3) Profit
Or, to be more specific, 3 is your claim that”sex-influenced behaviours” includes being caring.
Even the concept of “caring” is massively complex, being highly culturally embedded. The claim that such culturally-specific, environmental, social behaviour is in turn determined through some unknown mechanism straight out of a couple of gametes is preposterous, let alone unproven by just stating it.
Have a read of that Top Girls paper I posted a few pages ago. There was indeed a subversion of feminism to serve the needs of capitalism, but I don’t know why you think it was feminists that did the subverting.
It’s an interesting thought, given the much higher levels of assault by men, what’s your opinion?
Great post. I do agree human behaviour is unusual, and I agree plasticity has been a crucial part of our evolutionary success, and I’m interested in what you call culture. I think you’re absolutely right when you say that there isn’t determinism over complex behaviour such as how to behave in meetings.I think I need to expand on that top point.
Human behaviour is highly unusual in the animal world. Our key evolutionary strategy has been plasticity, the ability to adapt — the very opposite of mastering an environmental niche. We have lived in jungle and tundra, primitive camps and modern cities. You can’t have innate responses to master all those environments. So instead, we have a unique defining characteristic, which is culture. We pattern our behaviours, thoughts, beliefs using cultural tools (such as language), cultural scripts (such as what to do when we reach a traffic light) and cultural values (such as the idea that individual attainment is the best measure of success). Culture provides us with a toolkit to navigate without even needing to think about it in a world that would be otherwise utterly overwhelming in its complexity. Nobody could rely on evolved responses to tell us how to behave in a work meeting, as would be evident if you’d ever seen Kevin eating in one. Even just trying to cross a road would be impossible, let alone being able to operate within a social network.
What you are calling “caring behaviour” is similarly a pattern of highly complex cultural scripts, cultural behaviours, cultural values and so on. It varies from culture to culture, demonstrating just how cultural it is. And in the full sense of what you would mean by “caring behaviour” (such as worrying if others are okay, having empathy for somebody’s concerns and so on), it doesn’t exist at all in the animal kingdom (notwithstanding that animals follow much simpler behaviours that direct their protection of their offspring until it is viable).
If you’re going to suggest that such highly complex, culturally-mediated behaviour is not only directly derived from genes but specifically derived from one particular source (i.e. sexual dimorphism) you really need to do a lot more than just claim it is obvious.
Of course other factors are in play, but it doesn’t follow that testosterone doesn’t play a role in male aggression. There’s plenty of evidence it does I’m afraid.Well I think if men were genetically programmed for violence there would be a lot more of it.
So perhaps they are not and other factors are at play.
You’re taking offence?Where do lesbians fit into this? No man will be providing for me when I have a kid.
I appreciate you are making broad brush strokes, but fuck me.
You’re taking offence?
I'm not a lesbian and still no man provided for or protected me and my child. This is also the case for many many of my peers.Where do lesbians fit into this? No man will be providing for me when I have a kid.
I appreciate you are making broad brush strokes, but fuck me.
To state the obvious, you did need a man and a woman to make a baby until incredibly recently. I’m aware there are exceptions to this now, and I have no problem with that. What is your point?No, not at all. Not that thin skinned! Just think your view is centred around the idea that it is men and women who have babies. It isn’t.
To state the obvious, you did need a man and a woman to make a baby until incredibly recently. I’m aware there are exceptions to this now, and I have no problem with that. What is your point?
I’m aware there are a lot of ‘families of different shapes’ and I have nothing against them, I am one. That isn’t the point I am making.I'm not a lesbian and still no man provided for or protected me and my child. This is also the case for many many of my peers.
I think that its great if women or men as primary carers have someone who can provide and protect them but ime these have been women as well as men.
So based on that I personally do not relate to your black and white theory Edie and feel that your view comes across as quite limited and exclusive as if there is only one way, one model, the nuclear model.
It doesn’t really matter what your opinion is, the fact remains that human behaviour is influenced by biological dimorphism. Sorry.That I find the idea of women needing male protection old and outdated
It doesn’t really matter what your opinion is, the fact remains that human behaviour is influenced by biological dimorphism. Sorry.
No worries!I’m sorry, Edie . I’m having to write too much about this subject at the moment in my degree. I don’t have the energy to also engage in a discussion about it on here beyond what I’ve already tried to explain.
You’re not discussing. You’re just saying you find it outdated. Well so what? I don’t. So what? I’m not being rude, it’s just not an argument.Lol. Okay. Great discussion!
The reason that feminism claiming that there are no biological differences between men and women worries me Winot (ie the reason I find the gender is complete construct argument a problem) is that I think it is dangerous for women.
So you and your children haven't been provided for or protected by a man? Yet you seem to be asserting that this is inevitable based on biology?I’m aware there are a lot of ‘families of different shapes’ and I have nothing against them, I am one. That isn’t the point I am making.
purenarcotic is making an argument, as I was...no one, feminists or other are failing to acknowledge that there are real, biological differences between men and women and that those in different contexts do influence roles and responsibilities that we commonly take on...there are obvious practical reasons for this.You’re not discussing. You’re just saying you find it outdated. Well so what? I don’t. So what? I’m not being rude, it’s just not an argument.
The reason that feminism claiming that there are no biological differences between men and women worries me Winot (ie the reason I find the gender is complete construct argument a problem) is that I think it is dangerous for women. The strongest women cannot compete against the average man. Women do need and deserve protection from males, especially when our kids are little. Women’s caring role needs to be recognised and compensated by society, especially now so many women are raising kids on their own. Like weltweit says, how insane the State will pay a stranger to mind your infant but not you.
SameI don't have much to say because I am feeling decidedly dim-witted these days but...personally, my introduction to feminism was predicated firmly on reproductive biology. Having children, particularly the long gestation and even longer road to adulthood, totally defined a large portion of my life. The role of parent, with it's joys and discontents was my political entry (although I had been induced into the class struggle at a much earlier age). Even now, how we, as a society, negotiate the role of parenting is still a fundamental question, with biology only slightly shifted from its primary perch.
No it’s notSo you and your children haven't been provided for or protected by a man? Yet you seem to be asserting that this is inevitable based on biology?
This is what I'm getting from what you are saying. Is this what you are saying?
Well I think if men were genetically programmed for violence there would be a lot more of it.
I certainly realise that...but find it interesting how gender-critical feminists morphed into latter day villains in the nascent movements for trans rights...and feel we are at a difficult point in separating just how power relations operate when discussing the lack of justice and equality for groups of people who, although coming from different positions, are still culturally oppressed.Social constructionism doesn’t deny material reality or the consequence of that material reality for power relations. Quite the opposite, in fact!
I certainly realise that...but find it interesting how gender-critical feminists morphed into latter day villains in the nascent movements for trans rights...and feel we are at a difficult point in separating just how power relations operate when discussing the lack of justice and equality for groups of people who, although coming from different positions, are still culturally oppressed.Social constructionism doesn’t deny material reality or the consequence of that material reality for power relations. Quite the opposite, in fact!