Newbie:
I hope no-one will accuse me of being anti-abortion or of misogyny. The former is certainly not the case and the latter has no part of my conscious thinking. That anti-abortionists may use the rights of the sort I've been discussing is obvious, but no-one ever said that the balancing of rights is simple. They can be argued against. The principle that rights may start at conception but cannot be realised or exercised until after live birth seems to me to be both reasonable and clear. A foetus has no rights in and of itself, nor any responsibilities or duties, it cannot sue or be sued, it cannot be prosecuted or hold property, it cannot agree or disagree with anything. But a person (ie someone who has been born) with every right, responsibility and duty that implies has the right to protection from conception onwards. And that right overrides the right of someone else to do them harm, even their mother.
I'm sorry newbie but objectively you are being anti-abortionist and misogynist.
I know from what you've written that you don't want to be but the fact that your argument only works and can only work by attributing rights to the foetus from conception onwards, places you firmly in the anti-abortion camp and is an attack on women.
It is an anti-abortion stand point because what greater harm could you do to a foetus (one accorded the rights of a person which is what you are arguing for) than terminating a pregnancy?
It is an attack on women for the obvious reason that it is a position which allows the law to police women's bodies, their behaviours, their choices (however constrained or freely made), to police and sanction their lives in ways that are not and cannot be applicable to men.
I think your understandable and admirable concern for a damaged six year old girl has lead you to a really dangerous place, and that you should have a long hard look at where you have arrived.
Cheers and take care - Louis Macneice
p.s. I'm off to watch Brighton beat Blackburn in a minute, but I will look back in later today.