Thanks again
Epona and all
Partner was trying to speak to vet yesterday and they said they would ring back and only did so a few minutes before closing then weren't available when rung straight back.
We would like clarification, especially if we can bring her home overnight rather than leaving for 2 days as that is unclear.
We will probably try the fluid therapy
2 of mine have spent time in the vet hospital overnight - Radar for a total of 8 nights over the period of a couple of weeks! Poor love was in the hospital more than he was home, and Sonic spent a night at the hospital after his CT scan and rhinoscopy - they do that sort of thing late in the day as it (the rhinoscopy, not the scan) is what they call a "dirty procedure" so he stayed in hospital for 1 night as he was still heavily sedated late in the day and they wanted to monitor him overnight - both cats were fine staying in hospital. Radar was a right flirt with the vets and nurses, every time he stayed in he pestered the staff for cuddles whenever he was conscious (I am sure the first couple of days immediately after his initial surgery passed in a complete fog because he was on a fentanyl patch and didn't know which way was up, I visited him daily and he was in a right state the poor lad).
I am aware that my cats are exceptionally friendly and really very bold about being in new places. At one point when Radar was not eating and on a feeding tube, I asked my regular vet whether he thought I was torturing the cat - and the vet shrugged and said "you know your cat better than I do" - as I was syringing liquid food down the feeding tube that night and Radar was sitting there purring and wanting head rubs while he was being fed, I realised the only one I was torturing was myself - I was so stressed that within a few days of Radar being fully recovered and discharged, I had a massive shingles outbreak! He did recover (eventually), he is still active and a very happy little chap, and he still loves me.
Of course if that intensive treatment wasn't likely to resolve in full recovery and a few happy years to come, I would certainly have made different decisions, I wouldn't have done all that simply to hang onto him for longer if there was not a good chance for him to get back to full health.
(OH and I did actually discuss and decide that if stuff kept going wrong and he needed a third feeding tube install or another medical complication that it might be kinder to call it a day - very sad conversation to have, but I think necessary given the circumstances - we went through a variety of scenarios in a very logical manner and decided what would be acceptable/unacceptable in terms of his welfare, then cried after we had logically discussed and agreed on those limits - he is fine now so it's all academic, at least in regards to that health issue!)
So yeah, it depends on the cat - she could well be fine in the hospital for a night or two.