Sure, of course. That doesn’t mean they have changed sex though. And sex will always be fundamentally relevant.
I also have concern that whilst ‘passing’ (agreed, awful term) may be possible in a transient social context, it’s not the case once you get to know someone let alone intimately know them. The limits of medicine and surgery are crude.
I’m just not convinced that denying the reality of a persons body, of themselves, is healthy. That said, for some adults (and I’m aware you are one Iona) that will be the decision they make and want to live by. And that’s as it is. The world is a big place and there’s space for us all. I really hope it works out for you because you seem a lovely person!
Fuck's sake you're in deep. It's like you're reading a script, I could virtually write your posts for you. It's really fucking boring now. Do we have to do pages of this, or can you take it to a thread that isn't about discussing transphobic violence?