Great post
danny la rouge.
I'm giving meditation another go so this thread is timely. I've only seen meditation as a relaxation/fuck off anxiety technique up until now, yet I'm eager to look more into the Buddhist side of things.
Has anyone had any success meditating today?
In their book,
Buddha’s Brain (2009), Hanson & Mendius describe the strain, disappointment and worry that the evolution of the human brain and mind has inflicted upon us, some of which is evolutionarily successful (as Robert Wright says: if people who suffer are more successful at passing on genes, then suffer we will), but on top of those evolutionary strategies, we now live in environments that our ancestors did not evolve to inhabit. So, the responses our brain exhibits are often a misfit for our circumstances anyway.
Chapter 2 of
Buddha’s Brain goes into this in more detail, but basically, the “pangs of living range from subtle loneliness and dismay, to moderate stress, hurt, and anger, and then to intense trauma and anguish. This whole range is what we mean by the word,
suffering”. (p24). The Buddha, Gautama, recognised this, and while his prescription can’t stop us or our loved ones getting ill or dying, it
can help us to deal with the dismay, the suffering, that life
will bring.
Our limbic system evolved to bring us emotions such as affection and affiliation. These emotions can help us feel secure. We can stimulate these ourselves. It turns out that while we evolved to respond to caring from others, we can gain the same benefits by caring for ourselves. If you think some of this stuff sounds wet and weedy, remember there’s a basis for this stuff in evolutionary psychology and neurology.
Meditation is one of the tools that can train our minds in this direction. So, if you feel irritable or unable to focus during meditation, just remember that that’s perfectly natural, and that every step will help. Meditation isn’t a destination, it’s a process. The process is the point.
When I began this journey, I downloaded an app called
Chill, which sends you reminders to be mindful at intervals throughout the day. It might seem like a bit of an oxymoron to have your day interrupted by smartphone alerts aimed to help you to be more clear-minded, but I found it helped in the early stages, when my mind was even more unruly than currently. I don’t feel I need the app any more, but I’m not counting my chickens, so it’s still on my phone.
Good meditating. Feel free to share: community is important.