The trick is to pretend any offending remakes/ prequels/ sequels either don’t exist or are so unworthy of the original that should be considered non-canon.
And why not? As a big fan of the original Star Wars trilogy but someone who has never read any comics and has not watched most of the animated spinoffs, I am constantly being told this is canon but that other thing is not. I’ve no idea who decides what is or isn’t, but at the end of the day I reserve the right to consider a story as complete in itself and ignore any subsequent sequels- certainly if they weren’t originally convinced as part of an overall story arc by the author.
The Matrix as already mentioned by
A380 is a perfect case in point. The original film worked perfectly as a rounded story. Then the sequels turned out not to be utterly shit, but against the grain of the satisfying conclusion of the original story. So until such time as someone remakes the sequels in a more fitting manner, I am perfectly at peace with thinking Neo beats the machines and destroys the Matrix for good as insinuated by the ending of the first film, rather than finding out that
the same shit had happened multiple times already with the machines’ implicit consent, which is frankly a fucking slap in the face to everything the original film stood for