Cheers. Liked, even if you are not exactly agreeing with me or I am agreeing with your last paragraph. I'm in danger of lapsing into some pompous stuff as to what my 'strategy' has been on this thread - shoot me if I do. Anyway,
my strategy...
At one level I've just been trying to take the piss out of the mail, not only for the shitshow circus they have created over this, but more so the way they have tried to scoop up the genuine concerns of the locals, flowerstompers and the like. Shitty, but run of the mill for the mail. In terms of my thinking, the qualification bit is exactly at the heart of it. I think it's possible and necessary to say that getting burgled is horrible and that anything that targets the elderly and vulnerable is despicable. It's despicable generally and it's despicable in terms of Henry Vincent and those in his family who seem to have been doing that for years. Afaik,
everybody on this thread has actually said that. Also, for me personally, I'm not a liberal or trad lefty on crime. Whilst much of crime probably has it's origins in structural issues, that doesn't help people who are the victims in the short term. As an example, on another current thread I've taken the IWCA line in terms of communities responding to dealing in their midst.
But to the point about the tributes and intimidation. Initially, I agreed with posters who said this looks exactly like that, 'territory', we know where you live and all that. But just watching it unfold (mainly via the mail
), it hasn't really looked like that. No show of force by the family and friends, just 2 or 3 women bringing flowers and heartfelt tributes and then going away. Again, qualifications, I've also said that if I was the old bloke, I'd see it as intimidation and I'd be freaked by the whole thing - having already been traumatised. But that's it, there are at least 2 different realities and groups with their own perspectives here. Specifically, having sympathy with the house owner shouldn't leave you thinking the family have no right to grieve in public (and, to be honest, some people on this thread have got pretty close to that).
Again, qualifications: Vincent and some in his family are/were predators, full stop. And in yesterday's spat, I said that put them in the company of other predators, legal and illegal. Okay, take issue with that if you want, but the point I'd ultimately make is that they are predators. It should be easy to say that - it is! But there's no need to laugh at their clothes, to want their social housing or benefits withdrawn, to start going on about lumpens. There really is no need to reach for the weapons of the judgemental right in any of this. [last sentence not aimed at you, obviously]