I've not been inside a pub since Feb 2020 apart from passing through to the toilet or garden. I did go to several restaurants after lockdown 1 and felt far more at risk in a couple of them (pretty high end as well) than I would have done in any pub I'd seen. Tables just far too close together.
As for now I would sit in a pub, restaurant, cafe etc but I will make sure I choose them carefully. Well ventilated, not over busy etc. Its no guarantee but its playing the odds.
I wouldn't go around other peoples homes, much rather meet in the park etc. Homes are designed to be air tight and we British have an odd view on ventilating our homes. That's a risk too far and everyone I know who has had a confirmed positive test caught it their own home or someone else's. I've banged on about this throughout but whilst everyone points the fingers at hospitality its actually our homes where most of the transmission happens.