I was right that
SpineyNorman ’s handy summary needed to be quoted every page. It’s a useful distillation of what I’ve been trying to say on this thread forever.
There is another factor too, which Spiney’s quote hints at. As well as seeing polar, (tripartite?) homogenous positions, many on this thread seem to mistake commentary for preference. That saying where we’re at equals being happy with that.
I think it comes from the place where some people who wanted the UK to Remain in the EU think that because they really,
really want it, it can still happen. Maybe they’re not used to what they want not happening, who knows. But you’d think that this close to the finishing line they’d be able to conceptualise the difference between what they had hoped for and what is actually happening.