International Mens Day

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[pengaleng]

'nobody is cis' is an aggressive post?

come on.

 

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[FridgeMagnet]

'nobody is cis' is an aggressive post?

come on.

Well, it could mean "everybody has a different gender identity and none are more valid than others" or it could mean "cis doesn't exist because questioning gender is just aberrant weirdness".

 

[pengaleng]

Well, it could mean "everybody has a different gender identity and none are more valid than others" or it could mean "cis doesn't exist because questioning gender is just aberrant weirdness".

yes but you'd have to be able to see inside the posters head to deduce that.

I've posted a response to it already.

if it was the latter it'd become pretty clear if the person who said it responded.

 

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[FridgeMagnet]

yes but you'd have to be able to see inside the posters head to deduce that

TBH I've only seen "there's no such thing as cis" appearing in an anti trans context so I could see it being taken as hostile, even if it wasn't meant that way.

For the record I don't believe in a strict cis/trans division myself.

 

[pengaleng]

I've seen it used both ways - am assuming (because it's posted on here) it's to suggest that everyone is 'on the spectrum' as it were.

me response was nope some people are just bormal.

 

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[pengaleng]

that guy looks fucking wired.

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[phillm]

You learn something new everyday here had to look up cis - must get with the program !

 

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[DotCommunist]

that guy looks fucking wired.

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he's also war-shy, given rosie the riviter was propaganda to get women into factories while men fought the bosche. White feather for that man.

 

[pengaleng]

i don;t even undertsand half of what you say tbh

well I dont see half of what you say.

 

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this is aggression. This is accusing me of all sorts that I do not have to take, that I do not have to engage with. Can anyone else defend it?

I interpreted your identity as a form of sexism, but I was wrong to do so. I apologise and ask your forgiveness.

 

[ElizabethofYork]

Nobody is cis.

What?

Can you explain what you mean?

 

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TBH I've only seen "there's no such thing as cis" appearing in an anti trans context so I could see it being taken as hostile, even if it wasn't meant that way.

For the record I don't believe in a strict cis/trans division myself.

yeah, but that's just accepting that these things are more complicated.

but the other, that's like someone complaining that they get called straight, or neurotypical. no one is straight, right? we should go back to normal and 'other'.

and for the record, there are people on this thread who have a track record for trying to bait stella with this stuff. i'm sure you can work out who they are, but this has been seen before. they come out with the same crap every time. the aim is to either shut her up, or to cause her to respond in a way they can point a finger at.

 

[friendofdorothy]

Happy mens day...

 

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so where does gender dysphoria fit into this way of thinking then?

unfortunately, i think you're dealing with people who are absolutely determined to hold onto the position that it dosen't exist. they don't understand it, so it's not real.

i don't always understand my aspie partner when he describes his experiences either. dosen't mean i think he's faking it.

 

[pengaleng]

no one ever names names, no wonder fuck all changes, you'd think it might be helpful...

someone apologised.

 

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[pengaleng]

who are you directing your questions at?