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The point wasn't whether or not the world view was fucked up or not. You characterising me as being dimissive of the excesses of ID politicking was what I was talking about. As if any opinion I have that differs from yours would only be received as dismissive. That felt like a set up to me. With you deciding that your way of seeing things is the only way.I'm don't need to be an authority to believe that's a fucked up worldview.
Nope I was very clear. did you actually read what I wrote? You have made another analysis of how i posted, implying I am being dishonest or there is a subtext and missed the very thing i wrote which invalidates the need for your analysis. What I wrote was...Yes I would describe that as an example of the 'excesses'. Again, putting that in quotes implies you don't really agree, without quite saying it
I was clear. You didn't need to attempt to decode my post.Would you describe that as an example of the 'excesses' of IDPing? I wouldn't.
For me, the excesses of Id politicking are more extreme...the difference between pro Black or a Black Nationalist or the difference between being a feminist and a misandrist for example.
Fair enough, your call obviously on that one. I am not adverse to kicking a hornets nest though sometimes so a straight forward quip about how she must be finding it a real struggle making ends meet on her trust fund, a cheery fuck you and then right click delete from your friend's list. She doesn't sound like a friend of yours at all, anyway.I'd say she has worked out her perspective in a way that is very meaningful to her. Given that she can immerse herself in communities where those views are mainstream I'd expect she'll become more embedded in that position rather then less. It's the worldview that makes sense from her class position.
I didn't challenge her. I have learned that any challenge to this position is met with scathing sarcasm and aggression. Term such as 'brosocialist' or the sarcastic use of 'not all men' would be thrown around with abandon. Since she has hundreds of fb friends from all over the world (who she clearly met online on tumblr or whatever) I'd expect to get mobbed pretty quickly with abuse about the entitlement of cishet males. Nobody would learn anything and she'd leave the encounter more validated in her view that beforehand.
I don't know if there's a way of challenging it. Maybe a lighthearted quip asking if it's ok when the position of power is occupied by a woman? Probably would get the same response.
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