frogwoman
No amount of cajolery...
You might think that, but you have to politely attack the politics, nothing else counts. What if the dreariness is down to social background? That would make you offensive.
politeness has fuck all to do with it. you don't have to be polite to fash. some kind of political critique that attacks them on their politics and not some bullshit would be nice though. otherwise you're just being their recruiting sergeant with your middle class sneering