I'm agreeing with you!So fuck those guys?
I'm agreeing with you!So fuck those guys?
I know!I'm agreeing with you!
In guess if nothing else, this crisis has revealed the vapidity of that old philosophical saw “what would you do if you could press a button and get a million pounds but a random person dies?” Turns or that most people in this country when presented with that situation for real are actually happy to hammer that button just for a chance to bicker with their mum for an afternoon.
I think it's absolutely reasonable that many people having been looking forward to having a normal Xmas, whatever that happens to mean to them.As someone who isn't fussed about Christmas normally I'm surprised by how much I'm investing in the idea of at least some contact with my parents - not getting hammered for two weeks and licking my neighbours door handles - but just going to theirs for lunch, kids playing Lego (my Lego, mainly space Lego, from when I was a kid..) with my dad...
It's not a religious thing, it's just something nice that seemed not unreasonable to look forward to after unending months of shit.
Well, I don't think 'fuck those guys', no. That they don't have a clear grasp of the risks involved isn't totally their fault - none of us really do. and they deserve protection regardless.I know!
Get that but one could argue that a lot of people are looking forward to being able to live, be in good health and other trifiling matters.I think it's absolutely reasonable that many people having been looking forward to having a normal Xmas, whatever that happens to mean to them.
No, I mean that don’t you think those expressing the views you mentioned (“someone will die but it’s not me”) are effectively saying “... and fuck those guys”?Well, I don't think 'fuck those guys', no. That they don't have a clear grasp of the risks involved isn't totally their fault - none of us really do. and they deserve protection regardless.
Nice of them to potentially risk leaving their kids full of worry if they end up sick. Or organising a funeral and explaining to the grandchildren (they wanted to see on jesus birthday) that they have died.Lots of grandparents I know are pretty gung ho, and say they would be happy to die as long as they can see their family at christmas. I'm not sure if they're still going to feel that way in the ICU in 6 weeks time, but it'll be too late then.
And in many cases they will even be the same people wanting both those potentially contradictory things.Get that but one could argue that a lot of people are looking forward to being able to live, be in good health and other trifiling matters.
They effectively are, but I don't think it's something they've thought very hard about. The 'I'm prepared to die to hug my grandchildren!' stuff is a way of avoiding thinking about it and changing the internal narrative from one of selfishness to one of self sacrifice I think.No, I mean that don’t you think those expressing the views you mentioned (“someone will die but it’s not me”) are effectively saying “... and fuck those guys”?
That doesn't really represent the situation though does it?“what would you do if you could press a button and get a million pounds but a random person dies?”
The button they are pressing is called “clamour to have restrictions lifted at Christmas”. And it will definitely result in thousands of people dying.That doesn't really represent the situation though does it?
They can press a button and get something and it might lead to someone dying.
But that's what everyone does every day in normal life anyway.
I think it's absolutely reasonable that many people having been looking forward to having a normal Xmas, whatever that happens to mean to them.
Apart from anything else, there are obvious physiological and hence cultural reasons why we have a festival involving getting together with family etc and consuming lots of food and drink in the middle of winter.
But I also question whether it's entirely realistic to think that we can do it as normal this year.
And has already been mentioned, the blame for the absence of a realistic weighing up of the situation lies with the government and those who seek to prioritise the economy over public health.
Twinkly lights, food and drink will be available as they are all year roundTotally agree about the need for something like Christmas at this time of year. Given how dark and grim the weather is its no surprise we want colourful and twinkly lights and indulgence.
In fact, thinking about this the most vocal grandma I'm thinking of talks about her willingness to die to embrace her grandchildren as if it's a universal feeling shared by all grandparents.They effectively are, but I don't think it's something they've thought very hard about. The 'I'm prepared to die to hug my grandchildren!' stuff is a way of avoiding thinking about it and changing the internal narrative from one of selfishness to one of self sacrifice I think.
Twinkly lights, food and drink will be available as they are all year round
Just eat them at home
Summer is nicerOf course. We were making general comments about why a festival at this time of year is important.
I agree that however much people try to be sensible and safe social and family meet ups ( unless in carefully regulated hospitality settings) have been a big source of infection. I witnessed this yesterday at a funeral. Initially everyone obeyed social distancing etc. The funeral was only 20 mins and then a chat outside afterwards. By the end people who said 'thats not allowed' at the beginning were hugging without masks. This was without alcohol in the equation as a wake was not allowed.yeah, loads more, and to more vulnerable demographics.
There isn't a direct causal connection between person A going to visit dear old Mum and person B dying in ICU a month later. There are LOTS of person A's doing things that will contribute collectively towards conditions that will result in lots of dead B's but the actions of an individual A doesn't matter which is what people think about. People don't think a great deal in terms of abstracts and even when they do such things get rapidly pushed aside where more immediate concerns come into play.The button they are pressing is called “clamour to have restrictions lifted at Christmas”. And it will definitely result in thousands of people dying.
The idea of having to spend January basically in doors, is particularly depressing. This idea that 5 days of lock down for every day of Xmas jollies. Fuck off.
I thought we were talking about individual decisions about what to do at Christmas.The button they are pressing is called “clamour to have restrictions lifted at Christmas”. And it will definitely result in thousands of people dying.
He just pinched the date off the pagans anywaySummer is nicer
Jesus is flexible these days
Literally just before i got covid I'd seen pretty much all my family for a 40th birthday. Mainly outside, I wore a mask indoors, each household had a separate loo. Probably shared serving utensils. I certainly kept better distance as teacher partner already had positive cases at school (so he didn't come).I agree however much people try to be sensible and safe social and family meet ups ( unless in carefully regulated hospitality settings have been a big source of infection). I witnessed this yesterday at a funeral. Initially everyone obeyed social distancing etc. The funeral was only 20 mins and then chat outside afterwards. By the end people who said 'thats not allowed' at the beginning were hugging without masks. This was without alcohol in the equation as a wake was not allowed.
I guess if nothing else, this crisis has revealed the vapidity of that old philosophical saw “what would you do if you could press a button and get a million pounds but a random person dies?” Turns or that most people in this country when presented with that situation for real are actually happy to hammer that button just for a chance to bicker with their mum for an afternoon.
The christmas thing I’m convinced (but have no evidence to support it obvs) that government simply knows that whatever they might decree on those particular days compliance would be tiny, so they just need for their own remaining credibility to appear to be allowing it to go ahead.
Barnard castle, after that imo it just would not work. I mean the people who would heed it will probably just not do it anyway, because they give a shit...A strong message of don't travel cross country to see your family at this time. We know it's difficult etc...