Cloo
Banana for scale
For a long time I didn't call myself feminist, only because I thought I wasn't 'worthy' of it and didn't know enough about it. And for a long time I'll admit I drifted along in the belief that everything was sorted now and women had all the rights we needed because I personally didn't feel I'd experienced any. I was cocooned by a privileged background, I worked in a very female-centred industry, I didn't get much harassment from guys.
It was social media that actually piqued my awareness in the last 10 years and made me realised how much sexism is still endemic in culture and how I had been shaped by certain expectations of women, and how much crap is pushed on children about gender roles. I guess that's the main level where I engage - I am really pleased it is starting to have an effect and more places (but too slowly) are ditching 'girl' and 'boy' labels (Clarks shoes seem to have done this now), and to see more girls and women taking leads in children's and other TV and films. Because this shit really matters. If girls know 50%ish of people are female, but see 90% of protagonists are male, it tells them they are secondary, background, a 'helpmeet'. If kids see thing targeted at 'girls' or 'boys', being rules-led, they will start to see thing as only 'allowed' for girls and boys and what starts with toys ends with career choices and so forth. I saw a lot of this as a shorthaired 'tomboy' child who had to tell my peers constantly there was no such thing as 'boys' toys' etc. But obviously, being a child, I didn't really generalise this beyond myself!
I have certainly got angrier lately - there is no doubt it my mind that society is still beholden to damaging narratives about women (irrational, untrustworthy, morally weak) that profoundly affect how we are treated, and we must fight to change them. And obviously ones goes from that to the narratives we have about other people who aren't straight, white men.
It was social media that actually piqued my awareness in the last 10 years and made me realised how much sexism is still endemic in culture and how I had been shaped by certain expectations of women, and how much crap is pushed on children about gender roles. I guess that's the main level where I engage - I am really pleased it is starting to have an effect and more places (but too slowly) are ditching 'girl' and 'boy' labels (Clarks shoes seem to have done this now), and to see more girls and women taking leads in children's and other TV and films. Because this shit really matters. If girls know 50%ish of people are female, but see 90% of protagonists are male, it tells them they are secondary, background, a 'helpmeet'. If kids see thing targeted at 'girls' or 'boys', being rules-led, they will start to see thing as only 'allowed' for girls and boys and what starts with toys ends with career choices and so forth. I saw a lot of this as a shorthaired 'tomboy' child who had to tell my peers constantly there was no such thing as 'boys' toys' etc. But obviously, being a child, I didn't really generalise this beyond myself!
I have certainly got angrier lately - there is no doubt it my mind that society is still beholden to damaging narratives about women (irrational, untrustworthy, morally weak) that profoundly affect how we are treated, and we must fight to change them. And obviously ones goes from that to the narratives we have about other people who aren't straight, white men.