Orang Utan
Psychick Worrier Ov Geyoor
Not all kids are clever though
Orang Utan said:Not all kids are clever though
PacificOcean said:So why don't thick white kids join gangs?
Don't they?PacificOcean said:So why don't thick white kids join gangs?
Crispy said:And parents and peers matter far more than what school you go to.
Crispy said:Don't they?
I thought they did, judging by the groups of kids I see in the streets round here.PacificOcean said:Again, why don't white kids from broken families join gangs?
They doPacificOcean said:Again, why don't white kids from broken families join gangs?
The odd white kid gets shot tooPacificOcean said:Why are all the kids getting shot black?
Orang Utan said:The odd white kid gets shot too
I don't like what you're getting at here - are you saying only black people get shot or shoot, not because of poverty or lack of education, but merely becuase they are black?
PacificOcean said:No.
I am just saying that poverty and lack of education is a poor excuse for gang culture.
There are black and white kids who work there way up from nothing. I was one and I knew lots of others. Also, I knew black and white kids who wern't bright but didn't get involved in gangs.
I think it's more to to with the gansta bling culture being held as an ideal and not wanting to use hard graft to get there.
I still stand by my assersion that hip hop culture has a big hand in this.
.. and there I was holding my breath for a dis[sic]ection and instead I got your poor excuse for a response below.Citizen66 said:Yours, Bothered from Bognor Regis
I promise to disect your shite at a later moment though when the sun ceases to shine and there's nothing better to do.
Listening to a certain type of music doesn't mean it's your culture. A typical Wolof boy could listen to both Mbalax and Gangsta Rap but his own cultural music will obviously have more of an effect.Citizen66 said:Do you honestly believe that US 'black' music like Snoop Dog etc isn't listened to in the Gambia?
Yes, but the difference is that the boy in The Gambia probably also listens to Youssou N'Dour a very positive influence who is celebrated there more than in London.Citizen66 said:You'll find that the tastes in music from young black men in the Gambia isn't much dissimilar to young black men in housing estates in Peckham.
Thank you for patronising.Citizen66 said:I'm also unaware of Sharia law operating in that country. Are you sure you're not getting confused with Nigeria?
The fact that you lived there for so long and know so little suggests that you spent most of your time behind some European-centric gated community. Buying fish from the locals does not an expert make.Citizen66 said:Well I lived with a girl from there for over a year and a half so I'd like to think I'm not completely in the dark... hence me using that country as an example.
No, but that's a dumb analogy. Countries in West Africa are more alike than people realise. Certainly more so than in Eastern and Western Europe.Citizen66 said:2) Being of European origin myself, does that automatically qualify me to be an authority on all the cultural and historical facts of, say, Yugoslavia?
If the fact that you have written 5,175 posts more than me is your claim to superiority, let me remind you that empty barrels make the most noise, and quantity does not mean quality. I'd rather have 1 meaningful post than 5,000 individual posts that are nothing but dross and ignorant posturing.Citizen66 said:Then on the other side of the coin you're willing to swallow every word of a 6-post wonder because it happens to fall in line with your agenda to get some little digs in?
No, but the topic here, lest we forget is not Gambia but South London.Citizen66 said:Growing up in Lagos doesn't automatically make you an authority on the cultural elements of inner city Banjul
Giles said:I think that more should be done to make people financially responsible for their own kids. That might help.
Giles..
Mind said:Listening to a certain type of music doesn't mean it's your culture.
Mind said:.. and there I was holding my breath for a dis[sic]ection and instead I got your poor excuse for a response below.
Listening to a certain type of music doesn't mean it's your culture. A typical Wolof boy could listen to both Mbalax and Gangsta Rap but his own cultural music will obviously have more of an effect.
Yes, but the difference is that the boy in The Gambia probably also listens to Youssou N'Dour a very positive influence who is celebrated there more than in London.
Thank you for patronising.
The reason why you don't know is because you are uninformed. Do not take your ignorance to be the truth. Gambia is a majority Muslim country with high levels of illiteracy. Of course Sharia Law operates there.
I see you ignored the fact that I said:
Sharia law operates unofficially in many rural areas.
Or do you just not know what unofficially means?
For your Information Muslim Law definitely operates in the Gambia as this speech by their president last year proves:
If the text is too difficult for you to understand, allow me to copy and paste some of the more relevant bits
"The introduction of Muslim court one hundred years ago marked the beginning of an important milestone in judicial development in this country. This court which was created at the request of the elders of Banjul was mandated “to judge the affairs of Muslims connected with their marriages, succession, gifts, legacies and guardianship according to Muslim law”.
After 100 years of existence, it is essential to take stock of the Muslim Court system. ....In this 12th Anniversary of the 22nd July Revolution, we are proud to record visible developments in the Muslim Court system."
The fact that you lived there for so long and know so little suggests that you spent most of your time behind some European-centric gated community. Buying fish from the locals does not an expert make.
No, but that's a dumb analogy. Countries in West Africa are more alike than people realise. Certainly more so than in Eastern and Western Europe.
The artificial boundaries drawn up the the UK and France mean that you are quite likely to find more people of your own ethnic group in other countries than in your own. e.g. the Hausas should be a horizontal country in their own right and not split into 15 or 16 vertical units across ECOWAS. One reason why you're more likely to get civil wars than wars between countries.
If the fact that you have written 5,175 posts more than me is your claim to superiority, let me remind you that empty barrels make the most noise, and quantity does not mean quality. I'd rather have 1 meaningful post than 5,000 individual posts that are nothing but dross and ignorant posturing.
No, but the topic here, lest we forget is not Gambia but South London.
You are the one who brought up a flawed reference to Gambia, thinking there were enough similarities beween the two to draw a like for like comparison.
At least you're not that insulting when discussing European communities in the UK and Yugoslavia.
Regardless of what others say, this is not about me being more black or more African than you. Whether or not you think I really am an African woman or a sock puppet is your problem, not mine. I'm not going to have an identity crisis. This is about me having the luxury of having lived and work in both the UK and Nigeria as a full citizen, not a tourist, visitor or migrant. So I can compare and contrast the lives of similar groups of people in London, Lagos and yes even Accra and Banjul alot better than you can after your stint in the Gambia.
Anyway, I think we've strayed enough off this topic, feel free to private message me if you want to continue the discussion. I probably won't reply as you seem more interested in insulting people than adding anything useful to the debate.
You had absolutely no valid critique on what I said, calling it "shite" has fooled no one and it is very obvious that your response was more of wounded pride than a devastating riposte.
Blagsta said:Pretty difficult to be "financially responsible" (as you put it) when you're on a low wage. Personally I think employers should give full pay maternity pay for 12 months at least. Women should not be put in a situation where they are forced to return to work by economic circumstances and leave their baby in the care of strangers at 3 months.
Giles said:I am not talking really about maternity pay.
I am talking about the prevalent culture of teenage girls having kids that they cannot possibly support, by guys who frequently make no effort to support or care for their offspring either.
Giles..
Blagsta said:Life's oh so simple in Giles world isn't it?
Thank you.brix said:C66 - Mind may be new here but what she has to say is interesting AND well argued.
Mind said:Thank you.
Giles said:I am not talking really about maternity pay.
I am talking about the prevalent culture of teenage girls having kids that they cannot possibly support, by guys who frequently make no effort to support or care for their offspring either.
Mind said:
By the way, I completely agree with you Giles.
Very few women are forced to get pregnant.
Contraception is free for all women in the UK as long as you get it from your GP.
While you may have little control over how much you earn, you do have a lot of control over when you choose to have kids and what sort of partner you want to have your kids with.
Maternity Pay is a complete red herring here and I disagree with the 12 month maternity pay solution Blagsta proposes:
This will benefit those who need it least e.g. married City Lawyers on £100k a year with wealthy partners,
Have no effect whatsoever on those who need it the most i.e low earning self-employed women and
Have a net negative effect on your typical Brixton woman in a low paid job at a hairdressing salon, where the profit margin is barely enough to keep the business going without having to pay a year's salary to someone who will not be coming into work.
More importantly, any 12 month Maternity Leave will end a good decade before your child becomes at real risk of descending into a life of crime.
Mind said:
By the way, I completely agree with you Giles.
Very few women are forced to get pregnant.
Contraception is free for all women in the UK as long as you get it from your GP.
While you may have little control over how much you earn, you do have a lot of control over when you choose to have kids and what sort of partner you want to have your kids with.
Maternity Pay is a complete red herring here and I disagree with the 12 month maternity pay solution Blagsta proposes:
This will benefit those who need it least e.g. married City Lawyers on £100k a year with wealthy partners,
Have no effect whatsoever on those who need it the most i.e low earning self-employed women and
Have a net negative effect on your typical Brixton woman in a low paid job at a hairdressing salon, where the profit margin is barely enough to keep the business going without having to pay a year's salary to someone who will not be coming into work.
More importantly, any 12 month Maternity Leave will end a good decade before your child becomes at real risk of descending into a life of crime.
brix said:You're very welcome. Though I should warn you that, like you, I read much more than I post and because my post count is comparatively small those willy wavers that have been giving you a hard time will probably shout me down because their post count is bigger than mine. I think they believe that size really does matter.
Citizen66 said:Get over yourselves
I suspect you two are probably pals on msn and we'll see a lot more of your mutual back-slapping around the forums from now on. Or you could spare us the double act.
Mind said:
By the way, I completely agree with you Giles.
Very few women are forced to get pregnant.
Contraception is free for all women in the UK as long as you get it from your GP.
While you may have little control over how much you earn, you do have a lot of control over when you choose to have kids and what sort of partner you want to have your kids with.