Unfortunately it is just too early to tell whether countries who have left some holes in their lockdowns are still going to be able to bring the rates of transmission down to the levels they are after within the timeframes that are hoped for.
Its not a risk I would be prepared to take, so I ended up in the 'slam the brakes on very hard and early' camp and some of the eceptions people try to find do my head in a bit, understandable though many of them are.
I am also not a believer in being slack in certain areas just because obvious terrible flaws exist on other fronts. eg there is clearly a problem with spread within hospitals, and probably care homes and other institutional settings too. If we dont see the right scale of hoped for reductions in transmission, much of my anger will be pointed in that direction. But it doesnt mean I will overlook or downplay the other possible vectors.
It bothers me that supermarkets etc could still be a big hole, I would be feeling more confident right now if we'd had a home delivery system that could have been vastly scaled up to reduce the in-store risks for staff and customers. We dont, and in the absence of that I would focus more on what could be done to improve safety in-store, thats a much bigger deal than quite how far, within reason, some people need to travel to find a suitable source for their essential shopping.
Large funeral gatherings have made me angry, and such things have caused clusters of cases elsewhere. Some scenes in certain public spaces in particular places on particular days have made me angry. Some of the wriggling makes me angry. The now former Scottish CMO made me angry with their unnecessary travel to their 2nd home . But most of my anger hasnt been pointed at any individual acts so far, its mostly been some of the things some people have said that made my blood boil so far. This anger has been partially tempered so far by the fact I dont know how much difference such things will actually make, but I only have the luxury of waiting to see because I'm not the one making the decisions or doing the enforcing.
I'd also say that things like peer pressure and community attitude policing and angry discussions are all inevitable parts of the picture in human societies that are under pressure to come to terms with and define a new normal, and the resulting 'values', 'virtues' and moral codes. Since the current lockdown situation is temporary and an intense example of this stuff, in some ways I was fearing it would already be worse. In some sense I'm actually more interested in the next version of this, the next 'new normal' that will have to be figured out when it is time to relax things a bit. The most obvious example that has already started to loom large is the question of face mask wearing in public.