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Is your son prepared for spending large parts of the first semester (at least) only socialising with the dicks he's in halls with, online learning only and likely lengthy periods of self isolation?
The others in the house are being quite careful, so much so that he hasn't really got to know them yet, they stay in their rooms and avoid the communal areas.

Apparently the Uni are dividing his intake into 3 groups, to allow distancing I presume. If he has to isolate he will probably immerse himself in computer games. I don't know what he would do for food, perhaps he would have to get a delivery though I bet everyone will be asking for that.

He isn't well suited to self isolation.
 
But what does "prepared" look like?
Hate to give useless unsolicited advice but things like explaining to him how to have boundaries with his new housemates, tell him to get to know them slowly and spend time away from them where possible and teach him some de-escalatuon techniques if you can. Temptation with freshers is to jump into really intense friendships with people hours into knowing them. Usually I'd lean towards "let them figure it out themselves, it's all life experience" but it's going to get nasty this year.
 
You don't currently even know what he'd do for food. In Glasgow they can't get delivery slots for 3 days - so at least make sure he's got food for a week, that sort of thing. Has he lived away from home before? Does he know how to shop for food? How will he do his laundry? You can leave them to work all this stuff out themselves in normal times, but right now there's a whole cohort of young adults who're frankly just children about to find all of that stuff that they could learn naturally totally fucking impossible.
 
You don't currently even know what he'd do for food. In Glasgow they can't get delivery slots for 3 days - so at least make sure he's got food for a week, that sort of thing. Has he lived away from home before? Does he know how to shop for food? How will he do his laundry? You can leave them to work all this stuff out themselves in normal times, but right now there's a whole cohort of young adults who're frankly just children about to find all of that stuff that they could learn naturally totally fucking impossible.
Hi killer b, thanks for that, I was wondering what you meant by prepared. I am encouraging him to buy for a few days each time he shops. You are right though a week's worth would make sense. He lived away from home for part of last year - a bit of a disaster :) I am hoping he will be more mature about it now. There is a wash machine in the house.

His mum basically did everything for him at home so he hasn't much of a clue, hopefully he can get with the new program quickly!
 
Yeah... I think at the best of times first year is a messy, mildly degenerate clusterfuck in which you work out the negative habits you’ve picked up along the way which are... tolerable... when in association with parents/at home. But become much more pronounced when the only people there to keep you in check are other teenagers, with their own issues.

And, still more worrying than that, the mental health issues that can develop outside of patterns that people have got used to and rely on. How those interact with people around you... particularly if you’re stuck with an out and out cunt or two. It’s always an issue, but throw in restricted social circles, probability of periods of complete isolation with those people. There were certainly abusive relationships (of all kinds) when I was at uni. Putting that on top of this situation... just genuinely disturbing.
 
The others in the house are being quite careful, so much so that he hasn't really got to know them yet, they stay in their rooms and avoid the communal areas.

He isn't well suited to self isolation.

Nobody is suited to it. But these poor students have basically got lucky dip on who they're gonna be locked in with.

I hope Weltweit Jr muddles through all this OK.
 
It needs to be two weeks worth of supplies - speaking from experience here.
Not sure he has room to store so much :) Have just spoken to his mum about it and she is going to help him do a bigger shop this weekend for tinned and dried stuff which will last ..

zahir what was your experience?
 
Not sure he has room to store so much :) Have just spoken to his mum about it and she is going to help him do a bigger shop this weekend for tinned and dried stuff which will last ..

zahir what was your experience?

Just stocking up the fridge and freezer with what I thought was enough food in case I needed to self-isolate and when it came to it finding I’d run out by about day ten.
 
In a reasonable world you'd be expecting a campaign by Student's Unions, UCU, Labour and parents to stop this nonsense. Admittedly Jo Grady has been pretty sound for UCU, but I'm too jaded to look for the rest. Ultimately this will hurt the Tories, but that's not much consolation for students here and now and their grandparents and others who are going to be infected down the line.
 
University of East London term doesn't start till Monday 28th (except for a few postgrad courses). I don't know about other unis.

A friend at birbeck's course hasnt started yet. Though birbeck may be more similar to local fe colleges in its set up and, therefore, risk anyway.
 
Here's the national Student's Union site and their lead page on the virus, all very sensible but not exactly calling for a D-Day flotilla to get students home:

And here's MMU Student's Union's front page, one of the Universities/Student's Unions with massive numbers in lockdown. Again, not exactly a call for action:

I've only glanced at those pages and there may be better stuff elsewhere of course, but FFS.
 
Many london universities start most UG teaching on monday 28th

Quite a few London universities draw a lot of local students who arent in halls or halls are very spread out. Only a few London unis are campus sites (Brunel, Royal Holloway any more?)

estimated that 17% Londoners have had it so maybe that's played a part in numbers of cases being lower during late August/early September across London boroughs
 
32 unis now according to Sky (they don't have a list, but there's a map)
You can use the pointer, but it doesn't look complete. Northumbria and Newcastle are not there for example. They might just be lagging behind or using a different level of proof/confirmation.
 
estimated that 17% Londoners have had it so maybe that's played a part in numbers of cases being lower during late August/early September across London boroughs

Estimates I've seen are more like 13% (eg Largest study on home coronavirus antibody testing publishes first findings or the weekly surveillance report https://assets.publishing.service.g...COVID19_Surveillance_Report_week_39_FINAL.pdf)

Which is about twice the national average.

I think there is something of a distorted impression about London in some peoples minds. At a minimum the testing figures for the last month for London should not be taken at face value, because of the following aspect (Its Khan who said this Sadiq Khan urges PM to ban household visits in London to tackle Covid ).

He said the number of Covid tests carried out each week in London had fallen 43% between mid-August and mid-September as other areas were prioritised, despite the period coinciding with schools, universities and offices starting to reopen.

Its impossible to predict with certainly but I dont think London will be spared as a result of higher number of infections there the first time. The numbers from the first wave are still too low to have a really big impact on that stuff, although in theory there is still a small chance I could be wrong on that. It hasnt helped Madrid so far, put it that way.
 
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