Pre covid I wanted to change my hours one day a week so I could collect my children from the school bus on the one day Mrs Shoes couldn't do it. It would involve me leaving 90 minutes early once a week. I'd always hit my time and billing targets and had been their star performer for years. It would have been easy to just say yes.
But my boss insisted on me making a formal request "making a business case for it", and explaining how I'd make up the hours on other days. But she couldn't just look at that and agree it. I had to go to a meeting at her office (45 minute drive away) last thing on a Friday afternoon. The meeting lasted less than 5 minutes.
Now I've been wfh since March 2020 and have unilaterally changed my hours so I work 7.30 - 4.
They said people who wanted a change to their arrangements, such as being wfh, had to put it in writing. So I emailed asking for that and my changed hours. That was months ago and there's been no reply.
Basically, fuck them. I'm going to do what I want and they'll do nothing about it. They need me to keep on making the money that I do. And if I left, they'd have to pay me everything they owe me, which they probably can't.
The downside for me is that I can't leave. They're paying off what they owe slowly and if I leave they may not be able to.