Irrelevant. My twitter is public. I was quoted. No one felt that my face and name as needed and my opinions and posts belittled.
I didn't quote you, therefore I didn't screenshot your twitter, c'mon this aint rocket science.
Irrelevant. My twitter is public. I was quoted. No one felt that my face and name as needed and my opinions and posts belittled.
Yes, that's exactly what I did
The subject of drinks prices was brought up from that blog post. I'd say it's highly relevant when the incident seemed to stem from someone bringing in their own vodka, whilst a friend of theirs declares that they feel "sick" for spending the huge sum of £2.40 at the bar.
But you misinterpreted it. She is sick, as I am, for giving a venue money following the actions that we witnessed. Both me and Simona have given that bar, on average, around £20 at least per visit to the Windmill on the bar and it is horrible to know that the money hasn't gone to a good cause but to a not only sexist and racist but from his attempt to punch me just all round violent thug.
Sad to see you coming here and making sexist allegations against this forum.
You are making allegations and people are not accusing you of lying. Nor have I seen any sexist. We are just keeping an open mind rather than leaping to conclusions. Perhaps you would get more credibility if you did not sling unjustified mud at us.
That's understandable, but also, if you had seen/heard this on Twitter yourself, without actually being there, knowing that you've had plenty of good trouble-free nights there yourself, what would your opinion of the whole story be?
simsimsim said:Nadia is a woman and was assaulted seems to be dismissed as 'crazy woman gets put in her place'
I have found this forum is finding itself overly in favour of the venue, perhaps because of the sexism that has been argued here and on twitter ...
BEEN MASSIVELY EDITED!
Well of course I cannot comment. I understand your perspective but so much testimony has now been given and it seems a bit off to simply declare that these claims are "dubious". In my own blog I have tried to be as clear and as objective as possible I have been critical of both sides and I would argue that the interpretation can be seen as having a degree of validity.
you are seeing something which isn't there.
I said perhaps. I didn't dispense judgement.
I didn't say that. I said that the issue has been easily dismissed as rumour.I haven't condoned his behaviour, so I'm not sure what perspective of mine you're understanding. I think his behaviour was bang out of order
Nail meet head. Great post. The saddest thing about all this is that the indiepop scene in London is one which prides itself on being all inclusive. It is without of sexual or ethnic discrimination or the clique nature of other music movements.
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I didn't say that. I said that the issue has been easily dismissed as rumour.
The Tut Tuts facebook account has the following quotes from previous gigs:
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we didn't stay for them, we had to leave cos Nadia was about to beat up everyone in the whole pub." "Why does trouble keep following the tuts!" "i wanna carry one [ a knife] i'd be shanking nuff mans
and amusingly:
Nadia laid down some truths about sexism in the live music scene - and promoters better know we're on to them. e.g. putting on a rising band like the tuts who have 559 fans on facebook, beloved by Kate Nash, thousands of views on their video, putting THEM in a support slot for some boyband with just over 100 facebook fans is fucking telling (no offence to said boyband, you may be very good)
I'm very aware that there is sexism within the music industry, but that reads a bit like a teenage temper tantrum. ((boyband))
To be honest, the fact that Nadia is a woman and was assaulted seems to be dismissed as 'crazy woman gets put in her place' followed by agreeing how quite right it is and that Seamus is not a thug- which is not open minded.
I think you are. These forums are not in the slightest bit sexist
I am sorry but that has not been said. Can you see how you saying stuff like this makes you seem malicious, defensive and unreliable?
No doubt something happened and it sounds sad/disappointing. I hope it gets sorted out but there are channels to go through. Witch hunt is not the best solution.
I'm not ruling it out. The posts about Simona and drinks distorted the issue and belittled her opinions when her opinion on the price of drinks has nothing to do with the reports and should have been ignored. The fact that her face and name was used and mine wasn't is also a bit strange. The comment about Nadia being a bitch, or similar, also justified Seamus's actions on the ground that he "put the woman in her place".
I favour the second view personally, that you don't like the idea that this happened in "your backyard" and a place you have a connection with. But I think this thread does have some quite unpleasant elements.
Anyway, this discussion ignores the true issue of what happened. I am willing to answer any questions anyone has about WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED and no longer feel the need to engage in these trivialities. I am sorry that they have gone this far really.
To be honest, the fact that Nadia is a woman and was assaulted seems to be dismissed as 'crazy woman gets put in her place' followed by agreeing how quite right it is and that Seamus is not a thug- which is not open minded.
I am willing to answer any questions anyone has about WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED
simsimsim said:it's how I interpreted your interpretation which is completely rational.
indiepop scene not cliquey? christ, you must be in a different scene to the one i've observed over the years. and it's really really heavily white and male dominated, too.
i have a question for those that know the singer of this band. given your knowledge of her, the fact she's apparantly quite bolshie etc. would she have left the venue of her own accord at any point once asked to leave by the landlord?
As I said in a previous post, I can't see any FIRST HAND account of racist language being used. Is there anyone who actually heard it, rather than just heard that someone else heard it?
As I said in a previous post, I can't see any FIRST HAND account of racist language being used. Is there anyone who actually heard it, rather than just heard that someone else heard it?