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I don't moderate this site. Sweet Meiga has reported my posts, so the moderators obviously have it in their hands.

Why you and others feel so compelled to spring to the defence of such an individual is frankly beyond me.
I simply said that it's not "mods/others" job to contact 'the relevant bodies' about your concerns, is it?
If you're so convinced he's a danger to others why not act on it instead of passing the civic duty to others?
 
Of course I understand the concept of red flags, and when they should be acted upon, and by whom.

But, although deeply unpleasant at times, I've not seen anything that could sensibly be interpreted to suggest he's a risk to the extent you've implied.
Neither did I, until I started reading the prior discussions that others were referencing. Honestly, at the start of this thread I just thought of him as a bit of a berk.
 
I don't moderate this site. Sweet Meiga has reported my posts, so the moderators obviously have it in their hands.

Why you and others feel so compelled to spring to the defence of such an individual is frankly beyond me.

Criticising people attacking him doesn't mean defending him. He needs to own some of the shit he's come out with but this big response sometimes sways between pompous and bonkers.
 
Stan's about 50. He's a highly visible gringo drunk itinerant who's hardly got the nous to exert persistent control over anyone. He's posted a tonne of stuff about control (and the unbearability of losing control), and reacts viciously when his ego is punctured.

I haven't seen him post anything that leads me to think he's a child abuser or rapist. Despite the fact that he appears to be controlling, vengeful, and fuelled by revenge fantasies to any perceived sleight. If he was, I can't imagine he'd get away with anything for more than half a day.

He'd probably start a thread about it on urban, ffs.

Edit: and I post this, despite thinking this is a fair summary of his posting history:
I'm not arguing for Stan to fuck off, as then he'd just be a creepy objectifying misogynist stalker who was being challenged on his stated history of creepy objectifying misogynistic stalking behaviour less often.

If I had a mate who was top bants (or whatever awful young people say) and told a cracking joke, but was also a stalker who occasionally assaulted people with learning disabilities, I'd feel that was a pretty fucking big elephant in the room, and more than a slight hindrance to maintaining normal polite conversation about lolventures, thieving, etc.
 
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What? Why don't you google and contact the Portuguese police or 'whatever bodies are appropriate' and tell them your concerns, if you feel so strongly ? Why 'mods/others' ? This is nuts. Get a grip.
Even better, call the Daily Express they love a Portuguese story and who's to say what he was doing in that Paris tunnel back in '97.
 
Start a new account.

Use it to start a thread in which you talk about how you're sexually attracted to 14 year old girls. Follow it up with an anecdote about how you painted a vast picture of a woman that spurned you, and displayed it in a place for 'all her family to see'.

See what response you get.

FFS
 
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Yes, Corax . And you did make me think why I don't see Stan as a huge risk.

I think it is, in part, because he is both pathetic and spontaneous. He doesn't have actual plans. He just spews out rage and hatred when his self-importance is punctured.

If he's been suppressing impulses for the last 50 years, then that must be pretty much the only impulse he's managed to successfully suppress.
 
Well I have tried to stay off Stans' threads because, well I have my opinions.

This one has been a hoot though, pictures in my my mind of a pissed up Stan pulling up cabbages and only getting caught because he lingered too long at the farmer's daughter's bedroom window, gazing in and fantasising.

What, I didnu doo nuffin.
 
mrs quoad Exactly , his massively uncontrolled 'over sharing', which has caused all this circus, and made him such a giant target, is what makes him much more tragicomic than in any way threatening.
 
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