Yup. Not all the supporters who came over for the rugby world cup in 2019 were as well behaved and beloved as the media back home liked to trumpet.Boorish 'laddy' behaviour can be worst among public-school types, for sure. Laddish posturing combined with a sense of entitlement.
I've never felt unsafe in a group of rival rugby fans, but can't say the same about football fans.
Also wasn't lad culture from the late 90s to early 2000s?"Lad culture" is the absolute worst.
I don’t think anyone’s actually doing that. I can’t speak for anyone else, but if I didn’t like the tone of banter in a particular bar I would leave and not return.
If that was to me, over what I said about my impression (while inviting someone to help me learn), then I didn’t ‘sneer at working class culture’, or even seek to draw a monolithic association between football and working class culture. I said I associated football supporters with negative things, with my fathers family*, as in uncles, cousins, etc. I am the only member of that family (I suppose technically my son is too, but he doesn’t really know them so it doesn’t really count) without a criminal record - something I hope continues, hence my not, for instance, picking arguments with strangers in pubs because I’ve overheard some ‘banter’.
*They do happen to be working class, but that’s not why they’re disreputable. Both my father and his father (but none of the rest of them) were talented artists, naturally brilliant with a sketch book and without the privilege to turn it into a living, which is just as much ‘working class culture’ as the liking for football that they all shared. And it’s specific to my case that their love of football went hand in hand with their love of a good scrap. That does colour a persons views.
If it was just a general accusation to nobody in particular, then I can’t say I’ve seen anyone sneering about working class culture. Only a couple of people assuming that football casuals = working class culture, and making an accusation of others motives from that basis. On the contrary, people have been open about their bias regarding football fans, freely admitting that’s it’s irrational and outdated, and hoping to change it.
I do have this instinctive association with football fans, in spite of myself, and I recognise it’s not the full picture - which is why I said please do share the anecdote. It sounded like it might be positive and happy.
Not everything is a battle, or a preparation for one.
Yes, they’re vile. In my university days, it was always time to leave the pub when the rugby boys turned up. The vibe went back several decades. Even on a different floor they’d be singing ‘get your tits out’ at someone within seconds. They tried with me now and again, but I don’t react. Pretending they don’t exist while drinking up and leaving is the best course of action.Yup. Not all the supporters who came over for the rugby world cup in 2019 were as well behaved and beloved as the media back home liked to trumpet.
they made me hate the sight of chinos with black beltsYes, they’re vile. In my university days, it was always time to leave the pub when the rugby boys turned up. The vibe went back several decades.
That’s nice. I really liked reading that post.I think one thing that doesn't get commented on about football crowds generally, is how accepting they can be. In the sense that there's a definite sense of ritual, and of being on the same side. Of course people who want a fight has historically been a thing amongst football crowds but equally there's always been a lot of people who are maybe a bit awkward or who find socialising difficult for whatever reason for who being in the crowd can be a bit of a safe haven. And a lot of people there are just geeky football nerds to be honest. There's a lot more in there than casuals or whatever IME.
Rugby fans remind me of my school days (posh thick entitled braying cunts). Hated them and the compusory rugby playing I was forced into participating in.I used to hate rugby fans because they all seemed like posh braying conceited wankers. But I know a lot of what I would call normal people, even friends, who like and go to watch rugby. It's quite big in Bristol and the west country I guess.
I've not followed football properly for a couple of years but wasn't in the habit of going to games but feel fine around football fans in pubs. I don't wear a shirt of the team I nominally follow though.
Rugby fans remind me of my school days (posh thick entitled braying cunts).
Yes, they’re vile. In my university days, it was always time to leave the pub when the rugby boys turned up. The vibe went back several decades. Even on a different floor they’d be singing ‘get your tits out’ at someone within seconds. They tried with me now and again, but I don’t react. Pretending they don’t exist while drinking up and leaving is the best course of action.
I went to a big rugby uni (Swansea) and the rugby lads could be annoying , however, friday and saturday nights in the city centre were often carnage (maybe they still are ) when the valley boys came to town, itching to beat up soppy students - and quite often they miscalculated and picked on rugby ladsYes, they’re vile. In my university days, it was always time to leave the pub when the rugby boys turned up. The vibe went back several decades. Even on a different floor they’d be singing ‘get your tits out’ at someone within seconds. They tried with me now and again, but I don’t react. Pretending they don’t exist while drinking up and leaving is the best course of action.
Goodbye ... and good riddance:
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Braverman-backed pub owner boasted his golliwog dolls hung like lynching victims
Oh gosh those oafs in Japan 2019: some of them checked out after the altogether rather reasonable time of 10am many asked for a knife and fork when in ramen shops and didn’t slurp their noodles like a good citizen and a few even made eye contact with strangers in public which was a beheading offence in the Tokugawa Ieyasu era
They used to do a 6.5% version in Thailand which got banned