littlebabyjesus
one of Maxwell's demons
This is a point I think most of us forget sometimes. This is a message board. People get taken the wrong way for exactly this reason. It's the same reason why irony is such a dangerous thing on here, and all of us miss the irony half the time. Not only is it just words on a message board, but it's also just words on a message board that a lot of us are banging out very quickly when we should be doing something else.It's more difficult/complicated than that, though, I think. Sometimes there's a subtext here that really does go unoticed (though one that was hinted at by revol, above) which is that sometimes people can be blunt (which is what I think Blagsta was being) precisely because you respect the poster. From stuff I've observed, I think Edie is one of the genuinely warmest, most generous, decent human beings on here - but she also posts some fucking awful crap at times in the politics threads. And I think she does get genuinely upset (not just the prostitution stuff) with some of the disagreements - how to deal with that when it's just words on a message board and there aren't the other ways that the meaning of what is said gets modulated with face-to-face communication...