You can oppose hate speech laws and promote a moral commitment to self-censorship.
Of course you can. I don't think anyone suggested otherwise. The point is that there is a culture around what one is supposed to censor oneself about, and the assumptions behind a particular type of self censorship.
For me what is important with respect to freedom of speech is opposition to the state deciding what can and can't be said.
id agreement, but I'd add civil society to that - NGOs, trade unions, newspapers, and so on.
i take an anti-state position not a libertarian position.
I take both.
I promote self-censorship.
In what way? What do you mean by that? What is it that you'd like to say but don't?
Urban75 promotes self-censorship eg. racists don't last long here and mostly because they cause offense.
No it doesn't; it's a largely anti racist community, which has a range of people and a range of views on how to deal with racists, from non platform to ridicule and so on. It isn't a monothought bloc, and most of us aren't mods. And, incidentally, I don't think casting a racist out of a community constitutes "self censorship".
why disappear distinctions between criticism of religion and racism with bland statements in favour of freedom of speech?
I don't think anyone's done that. Quite the reverse.
Who's saying Charlie Hebdo brought it on themselves?
Lots of people, including some on the so called left. Even the Independent ran a piece saying CH bore some of the responsibility for what happened. As if the murderers had little agency in their actions.
They are allowed to dislike certain views. So am I. So are you. And we are allowed to criticise them for disliking certain views as well. Etc.
That's right - it's called free speech.
I disagree. Opposing such bans is a way of avoiding causing offence to Muslims
No, that's one motive for opposing a ban, but it isn't the only one, nor is it mine. I've argued this point on these boards before, and I'm in a minority on this, but that doesn't bother me - I dislike state bans on anything, even things I disapprove of (like cocaine). I think prohibition makes things worse, not better. I don't think prohibition of hijab does anything at all to combat misogyny in Muslim communities, and may even make things worse.
There are some goofy arguments about how it is all voluntary
I agree. I think the way is to work with initiatives coming from Muslim women, rather than trying to be a liberal "missionary".