Athos
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Yeah, I don't think there's a hard distinction between 'rational' and 'irrational' fears so, in that sense, saying 'be rational' doesn't help (I'm not having a go Athos, it's not that kind of thread). There are only our own experiences, histories and ways of processing the world. Sometimes it's more about nudging these around and even turning the odd assumption on its head to make a bit of progress.
Again, I'm not suggesting there's some easy way to feel better FoD, just talking about me, me, me. In fact changing the way you think and feel about something like Covid - or anything - is really hard.
I know you're not having a go, but, to clarify: I wasn't simply saying "be rational"; I know that won't stop the anxiety. The point was more around pathologising fear; anxiety is only a problem when it's misplaced and/or out of proportion (reasonable and proportionate fears are what keep us safe). So a first step in the OPs situation would be to scope the problem i.e. to establish what fears are objectively reasonable, in the OP's circumstances (e.g. underlying health, local infection rates, vaccination status, age, etc.), and trying to tackle anything over and above that.